Hi Vanya, How about a M T F such as myself with an "attitude"? The trend has gotta change sometime. I think we just let "society" walk all over us in a manner of speaking. This is the same society that cannot see how a man can be a "sub" to a female "dom" but in everday life, he is the husband and the head of the house. (Actually, I've always felt marriage was supposed to be an equal partnership and not one be the "head" over the other.)My purpose for being an "adventuress" is to show that I can be feminine and decisive at the same time. I don't let others set the "bar" for me. I set it for myself. Plus, I don't ask for "permission" to be me or seek approval from anyone.Maybe I'm alone in this, but like I said, you gotta start somewhere plus I just gotta be me. If others can't see I'm my own person, it's their problem, not mine.Ericka
