Because since the dawn of time men controlled the world, Islam, Christianity - religions alike all have one thing in common - men are in control.
Men fear this change, men already dislike the rigor that feminist types have when they want something - (I'm not saying this is you, it's an example)
It's just something that will take time to change.
Only time will change it, and more of you coming out. Men have been coming out for years, only a handful of women in history have dressed up as men to do something heroic etc.
In time this will all change
