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    Quote Originally Posted by Ericka/Rich View Post
    Louise, Try being a man who wants to look like a woman who wants to look like a man. Keeps life interesting. Ericka/Rich
    Haha or a girl who wants to be a man who enjoys sometimes being pretty and looking like a girl.
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    Quote Originally Posted by pocoyo View Post
    Haha or a girl who wants to be a man who enjoys sometimes being pretty and looking like a girl.
    Got a new perspective Pocoyo. Decided I'm going to be Kay for awhile. Kay is a "girly" girl (hair, makeup) who prefers to dress in guy clothes. Just another point in the gender spectrum I want to explore for awhile. Kay Richards

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    Talking If only she would

    What a GREAT thought...I have suggested this to her on several occasions, but to no avail, however, I'd love to be her wife, she my hubby...Perhaps I go beyond the c/d, perhaps borderline t/s, irregardless, I love the thought of being a female, at home and in the world...

    This is my first thoughts, some times the first thoughts are most accurate, too many times we think too much...

    But yea I'd love to have Vic at my side as Macie.

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    My wife has expressed interest in doing the FtM thing, too. I'm cool with it, I think both of us moving into that "gray area" of gender can be fun. In regular life, she is very feminine, and I am quite masculine, so we both want to see how the other half lives. As for the strap-on thing, she has expressed interest in that, so I would probably give it a try. Who knows, maybe it's fun.

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    Hello,
    I currently do not have a wife or SO, but if I did and she was ok with my crossdressing and she wanted to take on a male role complete with her CDing as a male, all the way up to her being the guy in the intimate aspect of the relationship, Who I am as a CD has opened my mind to accept a possiblity as this if ever a woman that would come into my life have such a desire to want to pusue this. As long as there is love between each other, why not try different things to explore and share with each other?
    I have some experience of actually "being" with a male a couple of times while I was dressed, so if I were involved with a woman that wants to try this, it certainly could not be any worse than actually being with a man. I would deffinately encourage, support and embrace her desires. The bottom line is, its not what is on the outside of a person but what is within them.

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    I would welcome it and encourage her.....but I would also ask for limitations.....I'd like for her to be female....at least 50% of the time.:D

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    It's almost impossible for a crossdresser (or any other transgendered person for that matter) to render an unbiased opinion in reference to this question. In fairness, I would have to be supportive of her desires to dress as a male provided I was afforded the same supportiveness in dressing as a female. Note that the key word here is DRESSING as the opposite sex. I am, and always will be, a male underneath it all and likewise she will always be a female. I like it like that and I have no desire to participate in any intimate relations while assuming the role of a female while she assumes the role of a male. Crossdressing is just what the name implies - crossDRESSING. Anything beyond that just isn't my cup of tea.

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    I never would have been attracted to her.

    We would have never met or at least become attracted to each other. I like feminine women. Any woman that wants to be a man is not likely to be hiding it.

    So it could not be an issue.

    Men have to hid their female side but women do not have to hid their male side.

    There have been many threads on that.

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    I would support my SO as much as i could i know how hard it can be to deal with crossdressing. As for the strap on , been there done it, i really like it but only with my SO

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    no way

    It wouldn't work for me. I like role playing but a girl acting and looking like a man not going to work that would be a turn off. If she wanted to do that i would probly leave her. I have enough with my gf dressing like a baby all the time.
    Good bye i'm at wacko taco .com now

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    Wow. What a great question.
    I'm not sure.
    I probably wouldn't like it because I enjoy femininity so much.
    Although as her husband, I would be supportive.
    Although if she wanted to see a woman, I'd object.
    Although if the woman was me, I'd be okay with that.
    Although if the woman wasn't me, I'd be mad.
    Although if she let me join in with the other woman, I'd be fine with it.
    Although . . . . well, you get the idea.

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    This is a tricky question to answer. I think one problem asking a CD who hides most of the time is there is a fear of how others will react if they knew. It could also be a self acceptance thing and if you are not completely comfortable with it yourself it is difficult to know how you would feel if you were in the other persons shoes. I would have a difficult time with knowing my wife wanted to change to a male since this would mean major changes, however, if my wife wanted to CD sometimes I would be okay with it. I like her to look good as a female though, I think, because I enjoy doing that too.

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    This ih the question that helps me undertsand why its not easy for my wife to see me as Sarah. I would love to think I would be the perfect supportive husband (Sarah?!) and go along with her/him. I would find it hard to get sexual if she was too male - unless of course I am sarah and curious about having a man in bed. It gets confusing when we are in different roles, but if I was a non CD male I can see how it would freak me out in the same way as a straigh woman my CDing freaks my wife out at times!
    All girly on the inside...time for the outside too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sweet Jane View Post
    it'd depend on how manly she wanted to get....just dress and act masculine once in a while, always wear mens undies, I'd probably be OK, possibly as I could empathise with that...I think most CDers could empathise....now if she wanted to use a str@p on on me, then we'd need to talk a bit...I'm not exactly saying no but it makes me a little uncomfortable...breast removal and hormones and SRS would freak me right out...

    right on with the "STRAP ON"
    "I DREAM TO BE THAT ONE DAY I WILL BE"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lanore View Post
    Your girlfriend, wife or SO comes to you and tells you they want to dress and act like a man, how would it make you feel and how would you react?
    You mean she wants to wear tee shirts and jeans and trainers... hey :rolleyes: don't women do that already or did I miss something???

    This has one of those Deja Vu feelings...

    Kim


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    I consider myself to be a lesbian MTF, but I'm somewhat bi, and I actually have a boyfriend right now (though we have no sex life to speak of---I'm not that bi).

    If I had a girlfriend who dressed as a guy, our sex life would be better than our current situation because she'd at least be a girl under the clothing. So I'd be okay with it.

    I also think tomboys are hot. (though tomboy isn't exactly the same as F2M CD)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ericka/Rich View Post
    Louise, Try being a man who wants to look like a woman who wants to look like a man. Keeps life interesting. Ericka/Rich
    Or a woman who thinks she's a man, but that man wants to crossdress as a woman...

    Kim


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    Quote Originally Posted by Michellebej View Post
    Lanore,

    I actually went through that. My ex-wife started to assume the male role, more and more till in our private life ( we had four kids) she was the man, and I the woman.

    We had to be our genetic selves when around the children, but; otherwise it was the Rod and Michelle hour.

    I got used to it. It was fun. In the end she was the one that had trouble accepting her feelings on the subject. Thats another story.

    Bye the bye, my current SO is also very into the Role Reversal thing. So; here we go again.

    Love

    Michelle


    Where do you find them???

    Great thread. Let's see, for me, based on my current data, she would have to be 4 times hotter as a guy than the girl I would be least attracted to. Of course, I would know that she was really the hot girl that I was attracted to so, why not... Get into the role a little... be submissive.... I'll stop there before I get kicked. It sounds fun to me!!!

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