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[CaptLex]

The way I dressed at that time was not really myself I don't think, but I was dressing the way I thought I should at that time (long story).

Ah, yes . . . been there, done that too. :p

... a cunning combination of the two I should imagine (e.g. the real me when I'm relaxed at home, not the "acts" I put on for other people...)

I imagine the real you is the fun, funny, sweet, kind, caring (should I go on?) person that's here with us - regardless of what he, she or he-and-she looks like. I think the real you shines through and what you decide to put on the outside is just dressing up to suit your current mood. Am I close?

Hahaha! You mean, you mean you're a grown up?

No *pouting* - I refuse to grow up (but I can do a pretty good imitation of it when I have to).