I would like to think everyone of you for answering my post youve really helped me alot.

As far as going out to the movies or something while he's dressed, that isnt possible...I used to work for one of the biggest customer service companies around here so almost everytime I go anywhere within a 50 mile radius of our house i see somebody that I used to work with or that I went to school with. Small town areas suck lol

And as far as whats changed to cause my feelings, I think it has to do with me more than the dressing...Bet thats a first huh, the wife taking blame for the problem lol No honestly i've been losing weight myself and about the time I started feeling different was the same time I started gaining instead of losing. I had low self esteem, didnt want anything to do with anything pretty much. Therefore I had no confidence and lacking that really hurts in being dominate in the bedroom. But now ive lost 20lbs since the first of the year and ive realized that my weight isnt who I am, so its all good now.

Oh and the person who said their wife gets dominate after she gets going Im the exact same way!!

I really want to do this for my husband, I love him more than anything. Not to mention I really do enjoy being with him. I like the fact that at any given moment I can be with another woman if I feel the desire to be and in no way am i cheating on our marriage. Ah life is good!

So thanks again ladies for all the advice and suggestions! Im sure Paige will enjoy whatever I plan.