Being called a lady wtf?

[Kate Simmons]

Heh, heh, I don't have any problem being called a lady. Call me anything but "late for dinner". I'm secure enough with who I am and have certainly been called worse. Enjoy it Hon.

[Kieron Andrew]

im sure her calling you a lady was out of respect for the way in which you chose to dress.....i think its fantastic

[cindychan]

A few weeks ago I was called mam twice in one day in guy mode. My hair looks a bit femme though, so I don't care. It just shows people have selective eye sight in todays age. Years ago I worked for this old woman who had dementia and she always called me lady, which I thought was cute.

[Stephanie Stephens]

I don't know how anybody would know what sex you are by your pants.
My wife and I were at the mall yesterday and I was looking at this sea of leggs, most in jeans, and I think they were all girl jeans, including mine. There was not a thick heavy pair of carhearts out there. Add that to all the ear rings and sandals and I think the gender line is not so clear cut.
Just a few observations.
Stephanie

[MJ]

Heh, heh, I don't have any problem being called a lady. Call me anything but "late for dinner". I'm secure enough with who I am and have certainly been called worse. Enjoy it Hon.

lol Salandra is right, i only go out in drab to see my kids but i still get mam or miss :rolleyes: just enjoy it

[Brianna Lovely]

Heh, heh, I don't have any problem being called a lady.

Oh honey, I'm sure it's more like, "Yo Butch", giggle.


NoName
"Today my wife and I were at the mall. We went into spencers and infront of me about 10 feet away was a GG SA, and she chirps up, "How you ladies doing?" I wasn't trying to pass, just wearing a jeans, a white zip sweatshirt and my black bag. It really made me unfortable, I mean, how could anyone look at me and not know I'm a guy? Has this happened to anyone else?"

Maybe the SA could sense the real you?

[JeanneF]

Having worked retail, I'll say that most SAs really don't pay that much attention to someone when you first walk in the store. They just greet you so you know that they know you are in there (this is every bit as much a loss prevention thing as a customer service/friendliness thing). I don't know what you look like (or even how old you are, since nothing in your profile is filled out), but if you're on the thinner side, not particularly tall, wearing jeans and a white hoodie, and carrying a purse (even if it's a man-purse ), well, the cues are there to referred to a lady.

[Mitzi]

The SA probably saw your wife first and out of habit greeted both of you as "ladies" without really looking at you, only that you were carrying what might have looked like a purse.

Some years ago I bought a pair of heels en drab at Leed's, a women's shoe store. The salesgirl, out of habit, asked whether I'd like to try them on. Then realized what she'd said and turned all shades of red, while another salesgirl giggled. I just laughed, paid for the shoes and left.

Mitzi

[Di]

You are making much too much of nothing....I am sure they speak to thousands during the work day and it can happen...just trying to be friendly and omg said the wrong gender. It happens....not big deal.:rolleyes:

[joanlynn28]

What's the problem, being called ma'am is the best compliment a transgender person can get in my book. I get called that when I was in (hate the word) drab mode. Last week I find out why, at work they were taking pictures of my work group cleaning up my area. When I saw pictures of me up on the video screen in the auditoreum it is no wonder everyone everywhere refers to me as ma'am. This sure is no man up there, HRT works wonders on this girl.:D