Marlena that was an excellent post. I've never understood the feminist idea of hating men and feeling that they're all animals. Especially as there are straight feminists...
FTMs are somehow "bretraying" feminism by joining the other team.
I know, my opinion doesn't count 'cause I'm not a 'real' woman (yes, sarcasm), but why does it have to be teams? That form of feminism has never worked for me. I've got three brothers, and lemme tell ya, we're all on the same team. It's called 'human'. I dunno. It's an easy trap to fall into, to hate the group that has victimized you, but I don't want to give them that much power. It's just hard, from where I am, because I'm a loud voice in my social circle for gender equality, and I end up getting lumped in with that other type of feminists, the man hating kind. So I end up really not liking them.