Best of luck to you and your family Gina. Know that you'll always have a safe haven here to come back to should you so desire. God speed!
Best of luck to you and your family Gina. Know that you'll always have a safe haven here to come back to should you so desire. God speed!
All the best to you and your loved ones and I support you 100%
Hugs
Lovely Rita
The journey is about learning how to love and to do it with all our heart.
The Revolution moves forward!!!!!
aspiring to be "part of the cure and not the disease."
to quote Cold Play.
Becoming the person I was created to be
not the person you expect me to be
"Girls Just Want to Have FUN!"
You don't need an excuse to Love just an opportunity!
Here's looking at you kid...
Der Transsexuellaußenseiter
The lovers have flown...
[SIZE="3"]VENI VIDI VICI[/SIZE]
Gina, you are doing the right thing. You sound like a wonderful partner and parent. They are lucky to have you.
Take care dear, and remember you always have friends here if you ever want to drop by.
"I dwell in possibility."
"Say what you want and be who you are, because those who matter don't mind, and those who matter don't mind."--Dr. Seuss
"I learned long ago, never to wrestle with a pig. You get dirty, and besides, the pig likes it."
George Bernard Shaw
Many are going to miss you, but I'm sure we all believe this is the right thing. Just don't forget us, and if things work out for you, be sure to come back and tell us about it. Goodbye for now.
"Why are you wearing those stupid girls' clothes?"
"Why are you wearing those stupid mens' clothes?"
--Adapted from Donnie Darko
Gina, you've got some tough times ahead of you. I believe your heart is in the right place and that your intentions are good. I hope that by surrendering this part of yourself, that you don't change the dynamic of your own being. Do what you must do, Gina, but don't be surpriised if the result is not what you expect.
Fulltime girl on the inside.
Lipstick=confidence
[SIZE=4]Holly[/SIZE]
Family is first! I have been there and done that, its the right thing to do!
Don't take this wrong, but when we first try on that nice pair of hose, or shave our legs, its a different world, and at least for me it never goes away.
Please put CD'ing aside for a bit and take care of the family!
But if your future is like mine it will come back and in my case with support of my lovely wife and best friend.
Good luck, I will miss your posts. My prayers are with you.
SandyR
Real Men can Cook in Heels...
Best Wishes. Hang on to that family.
Diana
It takes character, and courage, and commitment, to do what you are doing. Please don't get too down, if you slip up, once in a while. We all do. If I had a loving wife, I would want to be loyal to her, and be at least willing to change, too, but, I am an old bachelor, still hoping for a lovely wife. Until then, I admire the lovely lady in the mirror. One day at a time.
.. the truth that crossdressers may be the most "monogamous" of partners .. is sadly, lost on You're wife ....
while stats might confirm .that for most of "us" ,crossdressing is something that is tough to deny..desire wize...and after "purges" of clothing etc.. we come back to "dress" eh?
..those thoughts often remain ...and truthfully...the desire to emulate a personal ideal of "femmininity" seems rather harmless in real world terms compared to other "ism's" that are more common and destuctive in this world today !?
Transvestism.. how scary is it ??compared to __________ .You fill in the blanks?? and a stepping stone to??? what ??? c'mon ..not likely eh??
just my 14 cents worth ... xx "K"
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Just Remember,"Wherever You go- There You are ! "
Gina, I will miss your voice and your fabulous legs!
Above all, Family First.
I wish you, your wife and son a loving, healthy, happy NOW and Forever!
Roberta
[COLOR=Red]Open your Heart :
Gina, we'll miss you around here! I wish the best for you and your family. God bless!
GO RED SOX!!!:yippee:
Suzie
Gina,
God bles you and your family. I support your decision and I am sure that your love for your wife and family will grow ever stronger. You are doing what is right for you and I admire that!
I really appreciate the support from you all! It definitely means a lot to me!
Good luck and god bless...
Hi Gina
You've made a very public promise here, now it's up to you to keep it to your wife and son, and only you can do that!
Go and get on with living your lives together and as one - it is meant to be fun after all, but a fun life still has responsibilities.
Good luck ....
Truth and trust have to be the basis of any partnership, or what do you really have??
Hoping the 2 of you can find this and the peace that comes with it, for all concerned.
Best Wishes for your journey.
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Cuddling with my spouse of 18 yrs., GypsyKaren makes me Happy!!
Family first - you're doing the right thing, Gina and I'd make the same choice. Your wife is a wonderful woman for trying. Perhaps when your lives settle down a bit, Gina can re-emerge.
All the best,
Cindy
hope it works and sorry she is unaccepting...the hardest part will be her lingering doubts and your inner drives and therapy is recommended if you can afford it...best of luck!
[SIZE="2"][/SIZE][SIZE="3"]Big Hugs!
Ash[/SIZE]
[SIZE="3"]Do what you have to do Gina. You won't regret it! We'll miss you!
Born female intended
" Don't die with your music still in you!"
I feel like I need to respond here - because I am Gina's wife. I am not, as some of you say, unaccepting. I never asked him to give up the CD'ing, and I never said I couldn't "come to grips" with it. I voiced a fear about it going further, and it's a VERY logical fear, all things considered. The comment about cd'ers being the most monogomous of partners angered me to the core. Some of them are, but there is a fair lot of them that aren't. I won't go into detail on that. There are so many other things going on - and y'all have NO IDEA - so it's unfair to make assumptions or judgements about me. I have supported Gina all the way through this - and have told Gina it's ok to keep crossdressing, it's ok to stay a member of this forum. I don't want to be viewed as an uncaring, unaccepting SO when it's totally not the case. Gina is more than welcome to stay here and continue to do what makes her happy.
p.s. No one loves her legs more than I do...
Ashleigh
Yeah, see there's always 2 sides to every story and it's just a shame that one side was originally posted.... which I think is totally unfair, makes Ashleigh look like the bad one in all of this, which she isn't!!!!! I hate these threads, they are so one sided, they never tell the whole story.... so Gina, if you ever come back, you should think before you post, instead of hurting your wifeOriginally Posted by Ashleigh GG
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Missing my Libra babe Sherlyn, I hope she's rocking up there with the angels
Missing our Rianna, doesn't seem right, gone to early, hope she's partying with Sherlyn
Good luck, Gina.
warmly, Linnea
Yeah, see there's always 2 sides to every story and it's just a shame that one side was originally posted.... which I think is totally unfair, makes Ashleigh look like the bad one in all of this, which she isn't!!!!! I hate these threads, they are so one sided, they never tell the whole story.... so Gina, if you ever come back, you should think before you post, instead of hurting your wife
Very well said..
Strange that now Ashleigh has posted with her side not many more have.
The saying "birds of a feather" comes to mind.
Sandra
Administrator
I always used to rib you about your legs can't anymore. R.I.P Sexy Legs
R.I.P Rianna
Gina . You have made the right decission. Nothing in life is more important than your family. You have touched me and probably others in this forum. I for one will surely miss you. Don't be a stranger drop in and say hello once in a while. My thoughts are with you. Take good care of your family they're very very important nothing in this world can replace them. If I were given a choice I would choose my family above all else. Your family is number 1 above all else. Take care we will miss you dearly.
All my best Andreah
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