Carin is so lucky to have someone as wonderful as you by her side Louise.
I think shame entirely comes from outside ourselves, and it's not a real thing. It's built from fear and misunderstanding, and society uses it as an effective tool to keep people in line. The only thing is it damages us as people, it keeps us from being the glorious and beautiful creatures we are inside.
Good for you for recognizing it and turning your mindset around!
"Shame"
