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[Carin's Wife GG]

I love posts like these, it really gives you a sense of knowing the person a bit better! well done Carin and Louise, but mainly well done Louise for embracing Carin for the person she is inside and out!

Carin i hope its ok for me to give your lady some flowers

fear is what held me back for too long. And Carin suffered through that with as much understanding as she could offer. *MY fear was about ME. Carin, whether in female or male mode, is a terrific all round person. S/he has a fabulous relationship with each of our children and is a superb father. as a wife I could not ask for better. She is my soulmate.


Louise.

[Dixie]

[SIZE="2"]Getting all misty eyed here. No joke, it really tugs at my heart strings. If any thing ever happened to my wife,..............I would be so lost with out her. [/SIZE]

[kerrianna]

Hi Carin, that was a wonderful heartfelt post. Both you and Louise are treasured members here because you are both so loving, thoughtful, articulate and brave. It's wonderful reading about your experiences and very helpful.

I know what you mean about the loneliness and not relating to either gender - not belonging. Although I was good friends with girls when I was young, as soon as we went through puberty all that changed and I became afraid of them for some reason - I guess because I never felt fully male so didn't feel I measured up. I never had sisters so suddenly the people who once were my best friends became strange creatures to me. And of course I never connected with guys, so that does indeed lead to a painfully lonely existence.

Fortunately I met someone who has become my best friend and partner to share life with, and together we have both grown...but it wasn't until I discovered my true nature and accepted who I really am that I've been able to let that sun shine in too Carin. I totally relate to what you have gone through and love the way you have written about it. Your post really describes to a T (G - hehehe) the way I feel today. Thank you for sharing that.