Gay, that means happy right????:drink:
Gay, that means happy right????:drink:
[SIZE="2"]"Tell me why I can't where a mini 'kilt' to work?"[/SIZE][SIZE="3"][/SIZE]
Some people I've met seem to think that the word gay effectively means sexual deviant. Others, gay and strait, think that any hint of bisexuality means the person is a homosexual in denial. Some have even said that CDs and TSs are all homosexuals in denial who change themselves so that their attraction is legitamised. All naiive and ignorant views I've tried to correct.
Myself, I've always been open to romantic love wherever it may appear and for me so far that's always been with women. I don't react to male appearance the way I do to feminine appearance, at least in the broad sense. It just seems to be the way I'm wired. If I were single and were to find an exception to that then It wouldn't upset me.
I am attracted to the female body, female mind, and female energy. furthermore, I find it nearly impossible to be turned on sexually or romantically by the masculine body, masculine mind, and masculine energy except in extremely rare cases (my "I'd go gay for" list, which includes only two living people, only one of which is even gay, and all of whom are famous and I'll likely never meet). HOWEVER, I like penises as well as I do vaginas. if you want to characterize that as a fetish fine, but I look at it like this: I am human and I need to be loved (just like everyone else does), and so are transsexuals. and transsexuals have a very difficult time finding love because so many people have these hangups about gender. therefore if I do not have those hangups, then why should I not seek a relationship with one of them? and I'mOriginally Posted by Erinn
not even talking about just sex. I am not nor have ever been interested in one night stands with anyone. for me the "mind meld" of a loving relationship is what I desire above all else (and which has been sadly elusive). and from what I've experienced of the transgender mind from my friendships, they have remarkable minds. they have alot of issues, sure, but who doesn't? but being a victim of societies notions and pressures of masculinity I can understand and relate to alot of those issues, and they can understand and relate to alot of my issues better than a GG could.
but if you still want to call that a fetish, be my guest. it doesn't change anything for me.
I am gay and have always identified as gay. I have only recently begun to accept the CD side of myself (I am in my 40s). I really think that sexual orientation and crossdressing are two completely different things. I don't feel any more gay when dressed as when I am in male mode -- I remain attracted the same way no matter what. I guess we're all different and shouldn't feel the need to attach labels to our sexual orientation or gender identity.
--DDS
when im dressed as a girl i tend not to be interested in t'girls or cd's but a man as himself as i like to be treated as a girl and taken as one but when im dressed as myself i like to be the man and have a girl.i just like playing the person im dressed as.
You've done the equivalent of going out to a club, seeing a large number of women coming on to guys with money, and concluding "all women are selfish *****s only out for a guy's money."
I'm curious as to where that last outing was to. Was it a gay bar? Was it a Drag show? What kind of place was it? I can assure you that a large percentage of crossdressers are heterosexual. This type of mindset coming from "one of our own" seems a bit disturbing, but then again, we all have our own beliefs in all aspects of life now dont' we?
Kandis
i use to have that same problem
i had no clue what i was
still alittle not sure but i dont care anymore
Some of my best friends are crossdressers but I don't know that I'd choose to marry one. Although I have an attraction for most anyone wearing a skirt I really prefer girls with the proper equipment.
It takes a real man to wear a dress.
just be attracted to whom you are attracted to, why does everything always have to fit in a box?!
No labels for me, but plenty of near misses ! (ooh! is that a pun?)
I have danced with men while dressed....heck I might do it in drab, why not?
One time I had a real hot groove going with a Gay man who was stripped to the waist. I was loving the raw eroticism, and physical display of our dance, and I was no passive partner either.
However, once I got within sniffing distance of his armpits, any notion of further exploration was lost. I was in bliss until his maleness (in the form of man-scent) hit the dimmer switch.
Of course, I didn't like my first beer all that much, either.
I am in love (major crush, that is!) with a Drag Queen....I see her as Marilyn Monroe in a zaftig 6 foot fairskinned male body. I hope she don't stink ! And she is such a sweetie whenever we chat !
Maybe she could make me Gay?
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