I dont really know where to start here-Iam very happily married and a cd (very much in closet). I feel very confused about myself and sometimes my head just spins in confusion. I like wearing womens clothes as I feel comfortable and relaxed. My wife found some lingerie in a cupboard a while back and challenged me as to whose they were- I told her straight they were mine (very sheepish) she was quite obviously shocked but there was no anger. she could see i was embarrassed at what she had found, she asked if i wanted them thrown away, i didnt say anything but she folded them and placed them in my drawer. Nothing has been said on the subject since.
A couple of weeks ago we went to the theatre in birmingham and half time went for some nibbles-there in the bar area was a full TV with two other women. I mentioned this to the wife over a drink in the pub afterwards and she replied that she has nothing against cd's as long as they did nothing to hurt her. This has made me more confused-could that be an invitation for me to open up? Sally