Wendy I understand what you mean!! Kadence has always been a part of me, Both of these parts make the whole me. It wasn't until recently that I have discovered or chose to acknowledge that these feminine qualities came from Kadence. As my wife says that is where my sensitive, loving, and compassionate side comes from. Definitely not from "him", but I have certainly enjoyed opening up and letting Kadence at times take over. I just wish I had a chance to let her dictate things more often.

I still have trouble letting go of "him" on occasion, when dressed, but I also have found that I am feeling more confident about showing my more feminine qualities to those outside of my close family and friends. I have become more content with who I am. Thanks to both parts!!