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    I will see the nhs for the first time tomorrow. What to expect? Any advice? By coincidence I jusy had my first delivery of hormones today, took delivery here at the office.... great!

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    If you are talking about the Charing Cross GIC - which of course is not in Charing Cross - then you will meet one of the specialists who will likely become your primary clinician eventually. He will get you talking about yourself and your interests in order to do a preliminary assessment. To be fully included in the program, you will then need to go back at a later date for a second opinion.

    My main advice is just be yourself - they are not interested in some kind of fictitious "standard narrative", they are interested in you and in your needs.
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    Yeah, This first one is not at Charing Cross (in Hammersmith), it will be in NW1. If I had my way I'd just rock up at Harley St. and get the initial things done quickly. I do intend to bring lots of documentation with me to support my intentions.

    Today I took delivery, at work, of my first batch of hormones. This is soo cool - finally getting somewhere.

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    OK, that sounds like your pre-referral screening for other potential mental health complications. Some portray this as gatekeeping, but I see it more as due diligence.
    The psychiatrist will be looking to understand where you are coming from and whether you need any additional support from mental health practitioners. Again, the only advice I can offer is be yourself.

    Incidentally, did you know that the Charing Cross GIC in Fulham is part of the same NHS Trust as Broadmoor?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rianna Humble View Post
    OK, that sounds like your pre-referral screening for other potential mental health complications. Some portray this as gatekeeping, but I see it more as due diligence.
    The psychiatrist will be looking to understand where you are coming from and whether you need any additional support from mental health practitioners. Again, the only advice I can offer is be yourself.

    Incidentally, did you know that the Charing Cross GIC in Fulham is part of the same NHS Trust as Broadmoor?
    Hey sorry for the late reply. I just came out from NHS, and too right it was this first screening. I got my referral to Charing X. no worries at all, the Dr that saw me was in no way specialist in this area but had actually referred 6 others before me.

    Broadmoor, no way! Scary, that looks more like a HM Prison Service to me, and I should know having worked for the Queen
    at Worwood Scrubs.

    Well, most importantly I have now passed the first screening. One small setback today was that I had my review at work
    and they were complaining about my dress code at work. I don't get it, is it the gurly wear or is it just not good enough?
    CTO at work has been seen in t-shirt, shorts and flip-flops hot summer days. Hmmm...

    /Johanna

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    Glad it went well.

    At work, you will need to adhere to the male dress code until you start your RLE, then you switch to the female code. At least that is how it was for me. On a side note, this was the point at which management discovered they didn't have a female dress code for me to obey so a group of blokes hurredly wrote one which was a load of rubbish.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rianna Humble View Post
    Glad it went well.

    At work, you will need to adhere to the male dress code until you start your RLE, then you switch to the female code. At least that is how it was for me. On a side note, this was the point at which management discovered they didn't have a female dress code for me to obey so a group of blokes hurredly wrote one which was a load of rubbish.
    Kinda sux, as I do have it in my contract that I can wear whatever I like, it only needs to be smart. So I have been
    known to rock up at work en femme, and it has not been a problem, there is basically only one person that had opinions.

    Funny that they did not have a female dress code in place, so are you the only one in your place of work?

    So, I went to the NHS in male mode pretty much, under dressed, heels, men's fur coat that could pass for femme, woman's
    linen trousers, a femme scarf. Not looking very female at all, no bling. I think I'll adopt this style when dealing with the
    NHS in the future. I don't know when my next meeting will be, but I really need to prepare for it so I won't be wasting
    time.

    /Johanna

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    Quote Originally Posted by johanna.kitten View Post
    Funny that they did not have a female dress code in place, so are you the only one in your place of work?
    No, at my office it must be at least 60% women/girls, bu up until my transition they had never thought to codify what they were allowed to wear.

    The blokes who cobbled something together must have all been well into their 50s or more because one requirement was for no hemline at or above the knee. Now most of the girls in my office are between 18 and 35 and none of them had any "suitable" skirts or dresses, so as a compromise they had to be given permission to wear opaque tights. That didn't stop one over-zealous manageress turning one of my friends away because her hemline was above the knee .
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rianna Humble View Post
    That didn't stop one over-zealous manageress turning one of my friends away because her hemline was above the knee .
    Yeah, quite scary. Failing having a good excuse they can always invent one...

    Today I'll have to clear with HR what it is that I can't wear. I'd say about +80%
    of my closet is Johanna's stuff, so - perhaps I have to go shopping for this
    other person.

    /Johanna

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    Got a little bit of a question for you lot. Researching my alternatives and setting out a roadmap... Do the NHS support hair removal? The thing here is that I have access to free health care in quite a few countries and I'd like to pick the goodies from all of them. I have found one of these countries do the hair removal thingy, but then again - one have to actually go there!

    /Johanna

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    Quote Originally Posted by johanna.kitten View Post
    ... The thing here is that I have access to free health care in quite a few countries and I'd like to pick the goodies from all of them. I have found one of these countries do the hair removal thingy, but then again - one have to actually go there!

    /Johanna
    This rather disappoints me, the NHS is the only free service to most people here and it is sometimes very hard to get onto the NHS trans service due to funding. Why am I dissappointed, well, by your own admission you have access to other free services and yet you choose to take an NHS place.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nigella View Post
    This rather disappoints me, the NHS is the only free service to most people here and it is sometimes very hard to get onto the NHS trans service due to funding. Why am I dissappointed, well, by your own admission you have access to other free services and yet you choose to take an NHS place.
    I do have this access as I am a taxpayer in nine countries, I just thought it would be easier to use services in the same country I happen to be living in at the moment.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deborah_UK View Post
    In my experience the NHS doe not fund hair removal, which country does? If its in the EU perhaps I can take advantage
    It is and I know from experience as I lived there three times.

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    Apololgies I forgot to mention, that to the best of my knowledge, the NHS consider hair removal to be cosmetic and funding for cosmetics is very very limited and would only be done if it became a serious issue.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nigella View Post
    Apololgies I forgot to mention, that to the best of my knowledge, the NHS consider hair removal to be cosmetic and funding for cosmetics is very very limited and would only be done if it became a serious issue.
    Too bad eh? Good one I can pick goodies from so many countries then.

    /Johanna

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    Quote Originally Posted by johanna.kitten View Post
    Too bad eh? Good one I can pick goodies from so many countries then.
    I am tempted (as someone who has spent a long time moving sloooooowllly thru the NHS system (Leeds GIC) ) to say that your attitude to publicly funded health services 'Sux Big Time'

    But since this is my first post here I will content myself with wishing you well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JulieFromYork View Post
    I am tempted (as someone who has spen a long time movin sloooooowllly thru the NHS system (Leeds GIC) ) to say that your attitude to publicly funded health services 'Sux Big Time'

    But since this is my first post here I will content myself with wishing you .well.
    Yeah but it does suck! Meanwhile I get treatment Hong Kong way.

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    Sorry for keep serial-posting. I'll have my second session with the NHS in a few hours. Not a little bit nervous. This time I'm a little bit more prepared having read up on things, asked people that have been and done. I'll be properly dressed this time as well, not overdoing it. Of course it will all be secretly recorded for future reference.

    /Johanna at wannabegirl dot co dot uk

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    Quote Originally Posted by johanna.kitten View Post
    ... Of course it will all be secretly recorded for future reference.
    Do you realise that you may be doing something illegal. Just as your privacy is important, don't you think that the privacy of those who will be trying to help you is just as important?

    Why not simply ask, before you go, if it is ok to record the session ??
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nigella View Post
    Do you realise that you may be doing something illegal. Just as your privacy is important, don't you think that the privacy of those who will be trying to help you is just as important?

    Why not simply ask, before you go, if it is ok to record the session ??
    It is ok that big brother has me on thousands of cams just going to work in the morning but if I use the same to protect my own interests it is not! I am recording all things around me and all I do, and I should have started doing so many years ago, it would have saved me lots of greif.

    /Johanna - not always following the so called law

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    You are aware that you are on the "big brother radar", those you are going to record have no idea that you are filming them.
    Listen carefully to what is said, quite often you can hear what is not being said

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deborah_UK View Post
    I guess this is taking the thread off topic but like Nigella I think what you are doing is totally wrong.
    Not trying to frame anyone here. I record all my activities, a/v 24h of my whereabouts, I'm always gpsed, wified, triangulated. All my devices record a/v, location etc. all the time. I got keystroke loggers on all computers. Everything I do is well documented, encrypted and stored off site. I should have done this back in 2005 and my life would have been quite different from now. Once bitten!

    When it comes to the NHS, I've during my ~8 years in the UK contributed to NI and taxes more than most ever will, so it is pay-back time.

    /Johanna

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    Morning all!

    Sorry for posting to this thread again. Life is sweet, I'm so pleased - yesterday I got my letter from the PRS to finally get my screening at Charing Cross in London. Can't recall when it is but I'm quite exited.

    /Johanna
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    Sunderland gender clinic is a joke as been on waiting list for nearly 11 months and still waiting. It's only people's live there playing with. I hope when do get in living as female for year will help speed things along.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elizabeth 66 View Post
    Here is a useful link which the department of health issued for guidance for our GP's, it is a good place to start.

    Guidance for GPs, other clinicians and health professionals on the care of gender variant people

    Thanks for including this thread Karen I'm sure it will soon become very popular.
    Hi Elizabeth i dont know what i am doing wrong but i cannot view the file in any way for me there is no link to the actual file (i think i must be a bit thick) it sounds like something i could do with reading.

    regards Paulie
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