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    To answer this;

    1- I have done it only twice on my whole life with a man while I was a girl. I have been a CD for 10 years.

    2- I did feel guilty afterwards when I got back into boy mode. But while I was in girl mode, it was natural.

    3- I am not addicted to it, but I guess I would not mind it in girl mode. It offers me a chance to loose myself in the fantasy. I want to be loved and desired as any woman would. I want to feel delicate, cherished and sexy at the same time. I want to feel powerless and let someone take control of me....perhaps use me.

    4- Not going full time.

    5- The feeling I got was really special. I cried the first time I did it. I remember very clearly the whole event as it was my first. It was a man older than me by about ten years. I had chatted with him online for a while and finally decided to meet. He was very gentlemanly. He in fact told me if I wanted to stop during the process then say the "safe word" - as he wanted to act out several fantasies of his.
    He wanted told me to take a long bath poured me some wine and I got prepared for the night.
    He watched me apply my make up and finally get dressed in a rather transparent nightgown I brought. He has some other items of lingerie for me to try on as well.
    Then the "night" began.
    I was the recipient of his "advances" and it was my first penetrative experience. I was really blown away. I screamed and cried at the same time. It was almost too much for me. At the end I was so tired all I could do was to lay there for a sleep. I did not "come" during the process (although it was so erotic and sensual) but the experience was so different it cannot be described or compared to the "regular activity".

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    In answer to Sarah's #6, I too will continue to do it with a man. If you're treated properly being with another man is very enjoyable for both you and him.

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    The answer is no, but when dressed in lingerie I feel very sexy and feminine and want what a women wants in bed.When dressed the craving for is very strong.
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    Kimberly go ahead and act on those cravings. Doing it will not make you a bad person or most likely not gay, just a BI-sexual. If you don't like it after your first time OK then don't do it again. But, my bet is you will like it and do it when ever the opportunity presents its self.

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    1. Has anyone done it before? I have twice. First experience wasn't what I expected and pretty disappointing. Second one was the complete opposite, just amazing.
    2. Did you feel guilty later about it? Nope
    3. Did you get addicted to being with a guy? No
    4. Did you decide to go fulltime after being with a guy? No
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    5. Was it more pleasurable than straight sex? How did you feel? Each experience is different. Women have certain things to offer that differ from men. Its sort of like the difference between cars, they all have different experiences to offer and some aren't for everyone. My first experience with a man wasn't what I expected. He didn't have much to offer down below and wasn't dominant at all, so it was just awkward. The second guy was super hot, great body, very hung, dominant but not pushy. If I had the chance to go back in time, I'd definitely do my best to date the second guy. He was a real gentleman and sweetheart. If you're curious about it and really want to, you should go for it so long as no one gets hurt. Make sure you play safe and use your head though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lilly44B View Post
    Kimberly go ahead and act on those cravings. Doing it will not make you a bad person or most likely not gay, just a BI-sexual. If you don't like it after your first time OK then don't do it again. But, my bet is you will like it and do it when ever the opportunity presents its self.
    I'll second that, although with reminder that "what a woman wants in bed" might refer to penetration, which in our cases requires a far higher amount of preperation/approach to be enjoyable, which ladies don't need. If you go for it, I'd be very clear on keeping things oral.

    ps, I tried not to make this post to explicit, but seeing as it is a common first time mistake with gay/bi dating I thought it was appropriate to post as advice.

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    (Really sorry guys if this is a bit out of the line, but This information is relevant to the questions I asked)
    So I reached out to one of the guys on dating site and had a long conversation on the phone. I was really scared because I never talked to anyone like that over the phone. Anyhow, The guy was 50 yrs of age and had been with couple or CDs before and had relatively long relation. He mentioned that unlike women, they were unable to do it all night. He said that with a girl he could do all night but with a guy, he has to take breaks after every 12-15 mins...

    After talking to him, I am again on square one. I wanted to try it but now I am wondering if it is more of a mental stimulation which drives us or if the physical aspect could also be a driving force for such a relation. Does we feel mentally fulfilled as a women or do we do it for the physical stimulation.
    Again I do like dressing up, But I enjoy it more when someone appreciates the effort. So is my feeling to date someone is the next step to feel appreciated and content?
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    1: Yes I have,I am bisexual
    2: No
    3: No
    4: No
    5: Equally pleasurable

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    While I went out with a friend as his date on several occasions. It was fun to be the girl and we played the roles back then, but never went further than touchy feely. It was sensational as he slid his hand up my nylons or under my sweater as I felt his hand slide on my slip toward my breasts. We never went further as he wanted a real guy and I didn't want to be with a guy and liked girls.
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    1. Has anyone done it before?

    Yes I have, on several occasions.

    2. Did you feel guilty later about it?

    At first I did and felt that way almost immediately. Buyer's remorse I suppose.

    3. Did you get addicted to being with a guy?

    I wouldn't say I became addicted to it in any way but that being said, it has become a regular part of my sex life. I am bisexual and enjoy being with both men and women. When I am with a woman, I very much adopt the male role and it's kind of business as usual. When I am with a man, I prefer to feel as a woman and much prefer to be dressed as a woman. It's not a necessity to be dressed but for me it just enhances the experience.

    4. Did you decide to go fulltime after being with a guy?

    No, being full time has never been of any interest to me.


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    5. Was it more pleasurable than straight sex? How did you feel?


    I wouldn't say that initially it was more pleasurable than straight sex but as time goes on, I find that it is becoming a larger part of my life. For me, I was lucky enough to find a male partner who was gentle and patient and if not for him, I'm quite sure that it would have amounted to nothing more than a dalliance. We have become great friends over the years (20 years+) and I know that I will never go back to just straight sex alone. Is it the forbidden fruit? Who knows, who cares? I do know that he and I enjoy each other immensely and he is very discrete so it works in my life.
    Here is a copy of a Christmas e-mail that he sent me some time ago,... I certainly got a kick out of it!
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    1 - Yes I have, although only oral. Have yet to go all the way.

    2 - I was nervous, but afterwards I wondered why I didn't try it sooner. So no, no guilt.

    3 - Addicted? No I wouldn't say that. It was a new thing and a new adventure so it had the "shiny new toy" feel to it which made me want it more. I am bisexual in the purest sexual way. I do not find men attractive persay but I do have an attraction to the sex. I say in the purest sexual sense cause even the thought of kissing a man turns me off and is of no interest to me.

    4 - Sexual encounters with men have not influenced my want to dress or go full time at all. While the idea is a fantasy of mine, I was not dressed at all during my experiences and it didn't make me want to dress or go full time anymore than what I originally felt.

    5 - Much like I said above, it had the "shiny new toy" feel where you want to play with it as much as you can. Sex with a woman is much different than sex with a man to me. One has no effect over the other. I simply accept the fact that I have a want to be sexually active with men and women, but I only find women attractive and want a relationship with a woman, hence having a wife. The experience didn't make me gay, all it did was confirm what I thought from the beginning... I'd enjoy it.
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    I really want to do it but I am wondering if I am going to regret it later. My questions are
    1. Has anyone done it before? Yes, twice in my life. Not "all the way", but now I wish I had
    2. Did you feel guilty later about it? No. Fellow friend. We enjoyed it. But both super closeted
    3. Did you get addicted to being with a guy? No
    4. Did you decide to go fulltime after being with a guy? No. Doubt I will
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    5. Was it more pleasurable than straight sex? How did you feel? I was very pleasurable. I felt at home

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    Yes I have.
    1. I have been with few guy's but not nearly as many men as women. I have been with four men while dressed up.
    2. I have felt bad after some sex I have done and even regret, but most of the time I really enjoy it and the memory as well. I'ts not a shame!
    3. Some guy's are just so awesome that I crave them again and again, same is with women, to me its the experience with the person. I have also been with a man (and women) that I don't want to be with again.
    4. I try'd a bit to go entirely gay when I was age 20 in New York, but I found myself often crave for some of the women around me and even bring them with me in mind to bed with the guy I was seeing, so I had to accept being strictly bi.
    5. I have had more pleasurable sex with some women than some men and I have had more pleasurable sex with some men than some women.

    I do not regret exploring sexuality with men and I love dressing up and get treated as a lady by a gentleman.

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    Liking a man is nothing to be ashamed of. Most men are horn-dogs.

    My man is a rutty goat. All about pheromones and sex. He just wants me to service him. I want more than that, I'm trying to convince him that he isn't 'just' gay.

    Not quite successful on that yet. He kind of equates anal sex with being something he denies he is.

    I wish he was available the way I want him to be. He really has blinders on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TaraGrace View Post
    ... "what a woman wants in bed" might refer to penetration, which in our cases requires a far higher amount of preperation/approach to be enjoyable, which ladies don't need. If you go for it, I'd be very clear on keeping things oral.
    In my fantasies as female, penetration would not be part of the thrill, although the manual and oral aspects would. The kissing, the hugging, the eager explorations of our hands, all would be wondrous. But the biggest thrill, I think, would be the whole-body aspects: allowing the man to enjoy my femininity--the feeling of the curves of my body rubbing against the more angular firmness and hardness of his, and my perception that his enjoyment of my femaleness has brought him to such a state of sexual readiness.

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    Only once as a woman and only once with a CD as a man. No I did not feel guilty. No. I am still basically hetero, but am also bi-curious. No. I am still in the closet. I can only say it was different, but enjoyable.

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    1. Has anyone done it before? Yes. I was a streetwalker for a period of almost 3 years.
    2. Did you feel guilty later about it? No, when I am a single. Yes, when I am married.
    3. Did you get addicted to being with a guy? Yes, the guy who lured me into prostitution
    4. Did you decide to go fulltime after being with a guy? Yes but gave up when I left him
    5. Was it more pleasurable than straight sex? Yes for most of the time.

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    1. Has anyone done it before? Yes once a few years ago when I was unsure about myself and wanted to explore my sexuality.
    2. Did you feel guilty later about it? Not about the act of being with another man sexually. Going behind my wife's back, yes.
    3. Did you get addicted to being with a guy? No, but would like to try again if I found the right guy or another CD
    4. Did you decide to go fulltime after being with a guy? No, I have no desire to go full time.
    5. Was it more pleasurable than straight sex? As we only touched and performed oral on each other its a bit hard to fully answer the question. I must admit I was surprised how enjoyable what we did was and yes I would like to try again and possibly go further.

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    I want to thank you gurls for being open and honest (mostly) It is helpful for us waiting on the sidelines and wondering about taking the plunge. I have an online friend who is willing but not pushy about meeting. He's been patient for 6 months now. We will just have to see.

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    Wanda if he has be that patient what are you waiting for? Do it you will love it as long as he is gentile until you get used to it. It does not make you a bad person and as you see in this thread most of us don't turn in to being gay.

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    I have had the expereince a couple of times. It was a blow an go an I don't want to see you again. I then had a chance to go to a Halloween party at one of the local casino with a free rm. I then advertise on craigs list for a women to go with me. To my surprise another C D ask if he could go with me. As I did not get any reply from an women, I told him yes, but I would be going the whole trip as a women. He agreed an we met at local super market to leave one of the cars. As I knew were we were going I drove. On the way down we had a great chat an shared our different time. We got to the hotel part of the casino an Ck'ed in. I saw that he was a bit nervous as he never had done this before. Well it went great an he was really worked up about what had just happen. The staff was great to us both . When we got to the room we were both so excited that we made love it was great. We then got dress an went to the party. Every one that we met was so very nice to us an we even got asked to join other straight people. As the night ended we headed back to the room, for we were beat. About 5 in the morning I had to go , as I came back to bed she was still asleep. I sliped into bed over to her side an started again. This is the first time I had sleeped with a man all night, I liked it an if I get a chance again I would do it. Jo

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    Wow never had an all nigher. Sure wish that would happen to me.

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    A long time ago I met a guy on an online dating site (not craigslist). He was willing to dress but was mostly looking for someone to dominate him. I brought some clothes for him and he really like dressing up! Then I happily obliged his fantasy - nothing too crazy. Mostly he wanted my pantyhosed legs wrapped around his head. Once we were done, he performed oral on me and that was that. We got together a few times but then he had to move to another city. I was hoping to have the roles reversed at some point.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yinlingyen View Post
    He was very gentlemanly. He in fact told me if I wanted to stop during the process then say the "safe word"
    That is a good sign. Polite, even. Don't ever enter into any control situation you don't have a route to leave.

    Quote Originally Posted by Yinlingyen View Post
    I was the recipient of his "advances" and it was my first penetrative experience. I was really blown away. I screamed and cried at the same time. It was almost too much for me. At the end I was so tired all I could do was to lay there for a sleep. I did not "come" during the process (although it was so erotic and sensual)
    It isn't uncommon for the recipient to not experience a traditional orgasm. It still feels amazing. I don't *need* an orgasm, I just want more of *THAT*.

    Perfectly normal.

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    Have been with a man a few years ago, mainly just oral and mutual body rubbing, but enjoyed it immensely. Would be more than willing to do it again in girl mode. I was shocked at how naturally I slipped into that stereotypical female mode when I was with him....passive and somewhat submissive but totally enraptured.

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