Do what you like. Do not worry about what others might say. Progress as you feel comfortable and what makes it fun for you. If you aren't going trying to pass and go out it doesn't matter much what you are doing as long as it works for you. To progress you might want to think of trying a bra, girdle, or corset. Corsets can range all over the place in quality and price. Be aware. You might try "underdressing" and going out too? Anyway I think you will be welcome here. Sherrii