Browsing through the forum I wonder how many of us share common behaviours and ways of thinking - even in different continents, let me say - as if being a crossdressers should imply a sort of common way of feeling, or so.
I see that most of us, including me, are incredibly scared by going out en femme because they are concerned about what other people will think, and are really in fear of being spotted. Who is accustomed to going out "en femme" says that most of the time nobody cares about you...
So I thought, since I have always been a really good observer (I have seen it in my scientific work as much as in my hobbies), is it possible that all we crossdressers are very accustomed to watch people on the street, more than most of the other men and women, and because of it we think that every one else is watching and observing us the same as we do? People on the street instead are not so interested!!
I hope you understand what I mean... my English is a bit rusty!
Ciao