Over a month ago my wife and I traded underwear for the day. I asked if I could do it again the next day. She said she didn’t care. So I wore one of hers the next day (and I’ve been wearing panties 24/7 since). The next eve she asked me if we should buy me some WHITE ones of my own, because what if something happens to you (accident). I shrugged and said I guess some one will see it. She said yeah I guess that’s true. A week later I asked if we could get me some underwear when we pay a bill. She asked if I was thinking the bottoms or the tops too. I said bottoms. She asked,” You aren’t going crossdresser on me are you, or wanting to turn into a girl?” I was caught off guard so I said, “I would make an ugly girl and no I don’t want to be a girl. I love the one I have.”(and I kissed her). She went with me and we bought a pack of 6 assorted colors panties from Target. She gave me some of her smaller ones as my own. I thought that wearing panties was good enough for me, BUT…. This past weekend I was to drive a shuttle bus for 2 eight hour shifts. Well I decided to get a few items from Walgreens. So I got to work early each driving time and put on knee highs, a white strapless bra (with padding), and a pair of my daughter’s jeans(she got skinny). No one seemed to notice but I was constantly aware of what I had on even though I greeted every passenger as they got on and off. I got very comfortable dressed that way. I took them off before returning home each time. Now that the driving is done, I miss it. Now I think I want to do more of this, but I really want my wife’s approval too.
My wife doesn’t know I did this. She only knows I wear panties 24/7.
Now for my questions.
1) Is just wearing panties 24/7 considered cross dressing?
2) How can I gently or slowly bring this up to her that I like to wear other things too?
Sorry this is long, but I wanted to tell someone this. I couldn’t keep it bottled up any more.
Thank you,
Marsha K