I use a fem-voice. My male voice is very deep and no where near fem, but all I have to do is soften it and go a little higher and it seems to work great. I have had compliments on my looks and (thankfully ) my voice. So when your out and about do you use your male voice or can you fem it up enough to pass, Vocally. I know it is hard to do but I think it can just be as important if not more so then the look you present to others. After all if it seems to me that there are a lot of girl here that have not figured out the fem-voice yet.
So hows your voice and does it pass muster????