There have been a number of threads talking about the point at which we feel we've transitioned from masculine to feminine (for those of us who change back and forth!). Some point to stockings, or heels, or makeup, or lingerie.
Last night, my wife came home from shopping in my mid transition. The two of us like to keep Tina as a separate person so transistion is normally a time we don't share, but we do always greet each other with a kiss when I'm in drab. So she asked where I was and then said:
"You don't have your lipstick on so you're not Tina yet!"
Ok, my wife defines transition as lipstick! For those of you who are out to your SO and move back and forth from one gender to another, does anyone else know the defining moment when your SO determines that you are your feminine self, or at what point in your transition would she start to call you by your feminine name?? I didn't until last night and it just made me smile!
tina