Do you really want it?
I'm mainly referring to the picture and video section, that I spend most of my time on here browsing through.
As some of you will have noticed by now, I'm not afraid of expressing my opinions or fear becoming unpopular, but the last thing I want to do is to hurt someone's feelings for nothing.
I know you put a lot of time, effort and pride into some of your looks and I'd hate to come across as mean or overly critical.
I see a lot of sugarcoating and posts of encouragement, tips on improvements, no matter how apparent they may be, seem very rare.
It's not like I don't understand why that is. I believe it's very important to help each other build up confidence and make others feel good about themselves, and those pictures are often a very sensitive, personal matter.
I sometimes decide to let "if you don't have something positive to say, then don't say anything" rule.
That doesn't necessarily mean that I think someone looks terrible, it just means that there are things I think can be changed for the better and I feel posting without mentioning that is a bit hypocritical and superficial.
There's also the fact that we all have different taste and they may find "helpful tips" tiresome if they're happy with how they look.
Basically, there are all sorts of traps you can walk into, even if you have the best of intentions.
So to sum it up, what I'm wondering is.. When you post pictures, what kind of feedback are you really after?