All that I care about, is I am treated with and regarded with respect. I don't care to be treated "like a lady" What the heck does that mean anyway?
For that matter, how is a gentleman treated. Why does treatment have a gender?
It seems so silly when one really looks at it.
I would like people to treat me, how I treat them. Gee, what a concept. Sounds like one of the primary rules that seems to go by the way side when it comes to certain groups.