I am gender dysphoric. I have an inner facet who is completely feminine and an exterior structure that is male. I idolize the feminine form, style, being and mystique. But as I have allowed my inner self to grow, my sexual identity has become very blurry. I am a closet dresser who is married so my opportunities for exploring are truly limited. It is the dysphoria that I believe would be most troubling to my wife if I opened up to her. I would undertake to live completely as a woman (until I achieved a measure of clarity) if I could do it without hurting those who haven't asked to be hurt.
The end comment; gender isn't a continuum, it's a sphere, sex is the arrow shot through the middle of it...