Originally Posted by
Michelle.Martin
The notion that most TS are gay was an assertion by a variety of 1970's era practioners such as J. Michael Bailey, Paul Blanchard and similar so-called researchers.
I wasn't trying to define anyone, merely parroting what I thought that I remembered with regard to the conclusion of a study someone mentioned.
In any event, it is unfair to generalize anyone's sexuality, regardless of how they define themselves. To paint pre, post and non-op TS, and crossdressers as well, with the same brush denies individuality and is no better than doing the same thing to members of any other diverse group of people, hetero or otherwise.
We all have some common characteristics and we all make some generalizations because trying to indentify everyone in every context would be tedious beyond belief.
Ultimately, it is the person herself, or himself, who has the right and privilege to define their own sexuality, and not anyone else. If a TS in any one of the op-states I have mentioned says "Well, I am a ____ and I prefer to date ___ " that does not give anyone the right to say "Baloney. They were born with a penis so they're gay. End of discussion." To be frank, that is the same sort of thinking that has at a minimum marginalized the TG community for so long and these outdated beliefs serve only as roadblocks to acceptance and integration, and reinforce shame and prevent people struggling with accepting their own gender identity from getting help to understand themselves and move forward in their lives.
Finally, believing that looking at ******* websites will give anyone insight as to what transsexuals are all about is like trying to understand what teachers, secretaries and airline flight attendants are like by looking at other porn sites.
Perhaps it won't explain everything, but if two people are having anal intercourse, then I think it is a safe bet to say that they are NOT heterosexual (although someone may say that they will take pay to be gay.) Hell would freeze over before anyone other than my doctor stuck anything up my butt. So I guess my conclusiion is that if one is have Anal Intercourse, it is likely a gay activity., in my opinion I've logged hundreds of thousands of air miles and not once have I ever seen a flight attendant have sex with a passenger. I've flown a few times myself, and while I have never been in an airplane crash, I do know that they happen
These are porn sites They're fantasy, they are entertainment, and nothing more, and should not be regarded as a reliable barometer of anything other than what is marketable for that particular audience.