Like Sally said, very little slow dancing at clubs these days. Usually I'm out there on the floor and both guys and girls come up and start dancing with me. I'll dance with anyone if they can keep up with me.
Like Sally said, very little slow dancing at clubs these days. Usually I'm out there on the floor and both guys and girls come up and start dancing with me. I'll dance with anyone if they can keep up with me.
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Originally Posted by Sally24
I still can't get the guts to go to a bar dressed let alone wigle my hips. I still don't know if I would dance with man. Oh well if I find girl friends to go out with I might. But not alone. Huggs
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Sarah...What do you do. This has not happened to me, bucause I have not gone to a bar. (Also I am not pretty enough to be asked) And I am not gay, but I think ( what would I do if ,say, alot of men where asking me to dance. I don't dance as a man ( I don't think I can very well), But it might be intersing to try once. I am a very open minded person open to all things , Or I would like to think so. lets try this.
1. Would you do it
Yes.
2. What would you say to let him down gracefully.
Thanks for the dance.
3. How far would you go if you did.
The dancefloor and back.
If I had the chance I think I would chicken out the frist time. Unless I was with a group of girls that eurged me to do it and see what it's like. Like I said I just don't Know? what do you think.
Hey I'd dance.
If he thought I was that pretty I would feel like I was swept off my feet...chance to be Cinderella
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I think that I also would like to try it some time, but I would have to be really sure that it was safe, maybe at a group function with lots of girlfriends for backup.What do you do. This has not happened to me, bucause I have not gone to a bar. (Also I am not pretty enough to be asked) And I am not gay, but I think ( what would I do if ,say, alot of men where asking me to dance. I don't dance as a man ( I don't think I can very well), But it might be intersing to try once. I am a very open minded person open to all things , Or I would like to think so. lets try this.
[SIZE="3"]1. Would you do it[/SIZE]
I have never learned to danced "backwards," and why dance if you can't be held?
But if I felt that I was safe and that I would not disappoint my partner, then Yes.
[SIZE="3"]2. What would you say to let him down gracefully.[/SIZE]
Tell him the truth, that I can't dance and my feet hurt. Now, if he offers to teach me....
[SIZE="3"]3. How far would you go if you did.[/SIZE]
Being straight, (so far,) no more than dancing. With more practice, (dancing, that is! What did you think I meant? Oh come on!) maybe on nights when I am really getting into who I am en femme, and maybe if he were really cute...
No, who am I kidding? To the dance floor and back, as one previous poster wrote.
If I had the chance I think I would chicken out the frist time. Unless I was with a group of girls that eurged me to do it and see what it's like. Like I said I just don't Know? what do you think.
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Like Katie B said, I have had them all. Yes, I danced, was bought a drink and asked to go home with the guy. It was fun, ego building, but I'm just not ready to be alone with a guy. Not my thing. I did enjoy the attention though!
Charlie
Been there quite a few times in my younger days, just smile and gently tell him no thanks, you're not into men. Unless you are, of course, then just say yes and dance the night away!
Carol
My name is Carol.
1) Would you do it?
Depends on the man that asks me
2) What would you say to let him down gracefully?
I'm not the girl you think i am
3) How far would you go if you did?
If he was a gay hunk then all the way baby! I want to be treated like a lady!
no chance,i would be dancing with the girls,and the wife of course !!!!
i would run a mile if a man asked me to dance,if it was a cd no problem
I'm with Kerrylee!
Dancing is dancing and only non-dancers get that mixed up with something else.
Goodness.... Next there will some question that goes:
"You're at a bar, all dressed up, you're not G-A-Y, and someone comes in and asks:
"Do you own a green Honda? Somebody just ran into it."
And, soooo, what would you do?
Goodness.
By the way, my SO and I will go dancing and we'll see, "out in the wild," CDers, etc., every now and then. We usually call people in dresses, "follows," not "sexual suspects."
Dance etiquette is that every lead dances with every follow, so, as a lead with my SO, I ask everybody. I get some funny looks - asking some of those "women." But... I get a lot of dances!
Relax people.
Sometimes an invitation to dance is just an invitation to dance.
Go, practice, enjoy...
PS
As a dancer, I too have learned at least the basics of following.
You want to see how "manly" someone is, put them to the test of actually leading you around.
If they aren't good at it, well, no more dances of any kind, eh?
[SIZE="3"] I love to dance so why not, I'm not planing on taking him home. I used to DJ in the late 70's and would do all the disco dances as a guy, out 1 night in a gay club a guy asked me to dance and I was itching to try the steps I knew, as a woman, alot tougher to follow than lead, he was a great dancer and was very good for I had told him I had never done this as a woman, but after a few dances I was doing great and even showed him a few moves that I knew. We recieved many compliments from those watching us. I would have loved to do it again but felt giving him any info (e-mail, phone #) would be leading him on, because he took full advantage of the turns that had me in him arms, we took a break and he offered to buy me a drink, I already had 1 and politely refused. The set changed from retro 70's to hip hop and after a few mins said his thanks and goodbye[/SIZE]
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1. Would you do it
gay bar yes
straight bar no dont like gowing in them .
2. What would you say to let him down gracefully.
no thank you im waiting for a friend
3. How far would you go if you did.
I he nice looking ? I he drunk ? Do I know him ?
Many years ago I was at a Halloween party (i was dressed as a girl, natch) when a guy who was with my wife's girlfriend asked me to dance. I did, but it wasn't a slow dance. I don't think she (his girlfriend) liked it but she didn't say anything.
Well good point would i dance ?
1, yes i would.
2, no need to let him down.
3, the dance will all that it would be as you say i.m not gay
(not that is a problem)
i say gav is not a problem is because i have gay (male) friends and going to their home tonight for a "DO" but not dressed.
I really am not much of a dancer or clubber, but...
1.
Yes, unless he was icky. No point in sitting around.
2.
"No way dude. Chicks only." Lol, gracefully.
3.
As far as I felt necessary. I don't find guys attractive but you never know.
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I have considered joining a support group and as part of their meetings they do go out to clubs. My wife has said she would go to meetings with me, and I asked her the question - what would you do if a guy hit on me or asked me to dance? I forget what her reply was exactly, but she has said she views it as a compliment when a girl flirts with me (in guy mode) and I think she said pretty much the same thing about this situation. She thought it would be funny. Don't know how I would respond, especially if it was someone who would drag me out on the dance floor. I do think it would enhance my feeling of being fem to be in this situation, but I am definitely not gay or even bi, so it would go no further.
1. Would you do it
Sure, why not. As long as you are in a CD/TV friendly bar. Even being straight, what would it hurt- you're out as a woman right?
I think with the point of "if they're really drunk no way" is a good one- or if you get a bad vibe. Use your judgment.
2. What would you say to let him down gracefully.
I'm flattered, but no thank you.
3. How far would you go if you did.
I have a bit of an exhibitionist side to me, so (a) it depends if he's decently attractive, (b) depends on if I've been drinking. My dancing when en-femme seems to have really sexy movements (not bragging), so I might give him a little bump-n-grind action going on. Yeah, yeah, I know- those who know me know that I can be a bit of a tease. That's where it stops though. I don't go home with guys from bars.
feel the same, to be treated as a woman, wonderful
What do you do. This has not happened to me, bucause I have not gone to a bar. (Also I am not pretty enough to be asked) And I am not gay, but I think ( what would I do if ,say, alot of men where asking me to dance. I don't dance as a man ( I don't think I can very well), But it might be intersing to try once. I am a very open minded person open to all things. If I had the chance I think I would chicken out the frist time. Unless I was with a group of girls that eurged me to do it and see what it's like. Like I said I just don't Know? what do you think.I can't say for sure 100%, but I would tend to say yes (as long as he was sober). It would make me feel good inside to know that a man felt I was attractive as a woman and wanted to dance with me.
See answer to previous question.
It would depend on how well he danced, how attractive he was........and whether I was sober or not
1. Would I? - Yes, been there dance it..... at the Oxwood. Lots of single and group dancing. I'm a dancing fool and I've been asked a few times.
2. Leting him down.... - I got a bad vibe from one guy and simply said no thank you. He moved on to the next girl.
3. How far....? - One guy wanted to dance a bit too close. I pointed my bright red acrylic tipped index finger into the middle of his chest and gently pushed as I took a step back. He smiled, put up his hands and we kept dancing. He was gentlemen and escorted me back to my chair at the end of the song.
Another fella wanted to go further than a dance..... I told him I'd have to check with my wife......... The look on his face was priceless
Safety is my number 2 concern. Know where your going, know the security. I always greet the security guard or bouncer. They like to know your there and they are there for you if you need them. Always know where the door(s) are. Keep a clear head - don't drink too much. And go with friends....there's safety in numbers and it's more fun too.
My #1 concern - I have to look the best I can that day
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Megan
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dittoIf there was no chance of danger I would dance. It would be fun to be treated like a lady.
Stacey
I worried about that when I went out dressed, with a gg date to a singles Halloween dance. My date said that sometimes she will say, 'I have just been dancing, and need to rest a while.' Problem is, if the guy comes back later, she would dance with him, and I would not want to try, and either out myself, to his embarrassment, or to not say anything and try and fool him. Luckily for me, the guys were not asking the gals to dance much that night, unless they knew them from previous nights or came to the dance with them.
A dance? Yes, of course, though it can sometimes lead to other things. A couple of weeks ago, I was out, and a M/F couple invited me to come on the floor with them. After about 20 minutes, they asked if I'd like to come back to their hotel room. I was flattered, but I politely declined, and moved on to another section of the cavernous club we were in.
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