Twice recently on here I have nearly "outed" Debs's Male identiity
Once I nearly added a Pic of HIM & I as my Profile pic and once posted a thread where I used his male name ......... now that one was just after I discovered his Car accident and was posting to let folks know why we would not be in the ark for our engagement do that night ........ fortunately I very quickly realised what I had done ( secs rather than minutes) and immediately changed the Male name to Debs, but it was a close thing.
I did tell debs about both occasions and while neither of us would have been devestated it made me and her realise that there are hidden dangerers in our comfort levels of acceptance.
On other sites I use where I have pics I have very nearly added Debs pics, again caught myself in time .............. but it just goes to show how easy it can be to out your partner and without an ounce of maliciousness in it ..... anybody else come close ?