. I am not one who believes that I am the most inportant person in the universe or anyone else. People have families to deal with children, jobs etc. Sometimes we can not have everything in life we wish for, but can settle and enjoy what we have. In the end everyone is different and an individual.[/QUOTE]
I totally understand that, and i did mention it in my thread. True and relevant no question about that.
As far as being the most important person in the universe...I have a bit of a different take on that. When I was outted to my family and friends I saw that they believed that they were the most important poeple in the universe. How dare I disrupt their lives. What I was going through was irrelevant. How is this going to affect them? What are their friends and family going to think of them for having me in the family? Should I have to suffer and live my life according to someboby elses standards? They didn't care what I was feeing, so why should I care what they were feeling? If this gives the impression that I feel that I am the center of the univese....Guilty as charged.