I wasn't sure where to post this but anyway I have done so here in this section. I would never ever try to put anyone off going out en femme, but there are things people should know, I live in England and have been full time now for almost 8 weeks (2 months) and I have to say I have had nothing but cat calls ie guys trying to chat me up, and sirs and mates instead of madams and marms, and guys shouting out to me on the streets 'are you a man ?' 'its a guy!' and the worst one today 'oh my god its a lady boy !' so I might move to Thailand and join a pageant or something !
Seriously all I ever hear on British forums is how its all about confidence, have confidence and you will pass, no crap I say its all about how you look and are perceived by people and I obviously don't make the grade.
The point of post is to say to some of you, don't get carried away with all the hype about how good it is out there, I don't know the states that well, but if its anything like Britain there are trans phobic people out there, who will go out of their way to try and belittle you. By all means come out of the closet but be very careful where you go, and if you don't have to go full time then don't ! Occasional trips out to malls ect are ok, but stay out of reach of ignorant people if you can !