Quote Originally Posted by Brandi Wyne View Post

I sat my wife down and told her

how important it is to me

I also told her
and would be going

I reminded her
I would, of course, be dressed
I decided
She ... would not see me off.
That was cold but not really unexpected, I guess.

I read your sad post seveal times and noticed that there is a lot of you...but no discussion of asking her anything...

You "sat her down" , you "told her", you "decided" - did you listen or ask?

Is it really too late to try and talk? Perhaps simply asking her how she feels can open up a conversation.

I could not end a relationship with my mechanic as clinically as you seem to be ending your marriage.

Sorry if this comes off as unsympathetic, but I just don't see or hear any conversation, just what sounded like an ultimatum from you.