Hi,
This wont answer your ? the way you would like ,yet this is a part of what happens to us. or for some ,
Im interesexed or androgyny,
is some times used to refer to those with out gender specific physical sexual characteristis or sexual orientation or gender identity or some combination of these , such people can be physically & Psychologically anywhere between the two sexes .
the way we are wired or programed thats long before birth, our hormones & a host of other details inside of us dictate whats going on or what will happen .
Can one be taught to be one way or the other , may be for a short time yet long term no as has been proved you can not ....make ..... a boy be a girl or a girl be a boy .
For my self i was born with what makes me who i am a female / woman who is different ,
Not a put on or make belive or trained to be even i did not ask to be a boy or a girl , im just both or a mix of both . & to really understand . i dont know what its like to be a boy or a girl in a way that says im one or the other..i cant seperate ether of them .
If i was asked whats it like to be a boy i really have no idear & a girl the same yet im both ,
thats my conflict , yes iv learned iv seen i just cant put my hands on as it were & say im one or the other in a way that many people can,
A greater part of my self is female & a lesser part is male yet iv tossed that around & ill never really know,
Im just accepted as a female / woman in my own right, im liveing as i should & with out ? .
So being intersexed does have disadvantages & advantages, i belive i have the best part. any way thats this kid, & im happy the way i am & pretty much have been for allmost all of my life,
...noeleena...
