I would love to pass every time I dress but it's not going to happen. I think I'm in the 60 - 40 range on passing. I have learned to enjoy both sides of the passing issue. When a guy is checking me out as I make my way through public it makes me feel very good. I think to myself "fooled ya". On the flip side I don't mind the reaction I get when I don't pass as a woman. The reactions many people have are down right funny sometimes. I know for a fact that either way the sky is not falling just because Susan has on a great looking skirt, 4 inch heels, and a smile. I spend almost all of my time while dressed as Susan all warm inside no mater what reaction I might bring out in others. It's my fantasy all the time!!!!!!