Remember that the SO, no matter how much he/she reads, discusses, and watches news shows, somehow will always think of SRS as 'something you book for a week friday'. Unfortunately, there are some members here that think that as well.

Back to the OT, when my wife and I were dating we had the talk. Even tho' I started dressing very young, and knew I was a girl at heart, I told my wife (and kidded myself) I was a cross dresser. I told her I wore women's clothing around the house, would not seek HRT or surgery, and would only go out to the gay villiage in Toronto.

16 years later. I present as a woman full time, own virtually no male clothes, I go everywhere en femme (usually with her), am getting a BA, have an appt. with an Endo later this month.

The question is not so much did she know, or suspect...but did I know?

What a long strange trip it's been-Celeste