Has anyone stopped and thought about the fact that the wives or girlfriends are just heterosexual? We tall about being who we are and the total freedom to do so and be so. We shouldn't be "forced" into living in some way we are not..... well, then I guess we shouldn't ask or expect our partners into a sexual orientation they are not. Two choices here, go our own way or take the sometimes hard compromises. No one said life was ever easy.