The problems is often not the behavior, but the suspected underlying feelings that cause it. Women dress in attractive clothing, and it was designed to attract male attention, so it's pretty natural so suspect that you're dressing in female attire for the same reason, even if you deny that intention. Plus, the vast majority of crossdressers cannot explain their desire to crossdress, so women just naturally try to come up with a reason on their own, and you won't like the reason that they inevitably come up with: Either you're gay, or you're a transsexual. Neither is acceptable to them. unfortunately, the other reasons are also unacceptable to them, so they are left with no potentially positive outcomes about your crossdressing behavior.