I've been outed in the past, with not so wonderful results. My ex-wife revealed me, and caused me to be removed from seminary. Then a few years later, I lost my job due to my dressing. Then today, I get outed again, this is getting frustrating. A person from where I worked in the past contacted my current wife's employers (she's an educator) to inform them of the 'deviant' they had in their midst. I can't believe someone would do that after almost 4 years, don't they have a life? Are they that obsessed with me and my life? Luckily, the administration basically said, 'This is your private life, it has nothing to do with your job, we are very happy with you.' End of conversation, but it still freaked both the wife and I out. And the cat's out of the bag. I would prefer to be completely out, but my in-laws are rather close-minded folks, and who knows what would happen. And since we live in the same town......
That's my story.