I've encountered three types of approaches by men. One, is where my breast has been squeezed, by purpose, as a man passed by me. I considered that "fondling" and rude. Another was by a man who squeezed my bottom, then proceeded to initiate diagalogue. I considered that to being "hit on". The third was by a man, who approached me, initiated small talk, and then asked me to dance with him. I considered that to be a "social encounter". With that said, a man might approach, start a conversation, and be a true gentleman all the way through, without the fondling, or groping. Some women may still liken that to being "hit on". I think each one has their own interpretation of being hit on, and how they're peers percieve it, or how they do. Where's the rule book anyway?
