So on & off i've had sexual dreams about other crossdressers, but when I think about it more often, the thought of wanting another penis near me makes me feel sick in the stomach
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So on & off i've had sexual dreams about other crossdressers, but when I think about it more often, the thought of wanting another penis near me makes me feel sick in the stomach
That's probably just the guilt.
I'm sure when your with someone special, reguardless of gender, you will probably enjoy pleasing them sexually.
Or maybe like me when you get older, you become more open to new experiences
Amelia,
The thought never enters my head, when I go out socially, I'm not gay and most of the other members of the group aren't , the TSs haven't gone on to another relationship as far as I know, many of the CDers do attend with their wives or female partners.
I will admit the thought of a relationship with another man does turn me over, I'm bi-gender and only interested in women .
Well, speaking for myself (and I'm bisexual) I have *always* been more interested in the person as a person than what physical form they inhabit.
One thing you find in other CD/TS people is that they have a big thing in common with you... on outlook on themselves and on the world that most people don't have. That can be really interesting and attractive. If you have never been with a MOTSS (Member Of The Same Sex) it can be intimidating as it challenges stuff you have made assumptions about since you became sexually aware.
My belief is that CD/TS people appear to straddle the line on a number of gender/orientation issues, and this puts them in a middle ground from a sexual perception perspective even if they never intended to be in that space.
I won't pretend to understand all of the feelings that a heterosexual person has. Honestly, some of the extreme responses I have seen in Het people to people with MOTSS interests confuses me. The idea that *THAT* person likes chocolate does not impact my love of vanilla in the slightest.
I guess my point is that I understand why the OP is having some confused feelings. I just don't believe it should be any reason to panic or get upset. Having an attraction to someone is based on oodles of signals, ones you are not going to get as a man from a 6'3" lumberjack covered in muscle & fur unless you are already predisposed to liking MOTSS.
Just be smart, be open, and be honest. Whatever happens from there, happens. Even if that means that nothing happens.
<3
- Kitty / Moose
Well, there's a really easy solution to that problem. Stop thinking about it
So, are you heterosexual or ? ! I am heterosexual and have no desire to be with another male. Especially since i do not plan to transition. You must decide on your own sexual orientation. But I suspect since it makes you sick that you are heterosexual. This is normal!!! All these thoughts have crossed my mind also!! Fantasies have flashed through my mind! You need to do some soul searching and everything will work out!! Best wishes ! Good luck!! Hugs Lana Mae
Trying to understand what transitioning has to do with it :idontknow:Quote:
Originally Posted by Lana Mae
I have to decide?Quote:
You must decide on your own sexual orientation.
Such thoughts are not unusual. It is
Thoughts about another crossdressers are pretty common. Back when I was a stud, I did a couple of them and they were so feminine. So I must have thought about them also. But find your sexual desires and focus on that.
I'm not attracted to men. but I'm attracted to crossdressers sometimes.never met one in person that I know of though
yes I'm heterosexual & been trying to do some soul searching