Would you/have you?
Just before a woman I knew became one, she took me shopping for lingerie, took me to her house, had me wear the lingerie then did my make-up and got me to give her a pedi.
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Would you/have you?
Just before a woman I knew became one, she took me shopping for lingerie, took me to her house, had me wear the lingerie then did my make-up and got me to give her a pedi.
I've never been excited about sex with strangers. Altho, some of my dates would DEFINITELY qualify as STRANGE! Bada boom!
My ex and I tried some S&M, bondage role playing. It didn't work for either of us. However, I'll BET there r some couples here that do it regularly!
Dominatrices do not do sex at all. Anyway, she was not one at the time I saw her.
I would visit a dominatrix to dress in leather or latex for the fun of it.
Who? We? Ha Ha Ha.... Never... (I'll nev-ver tell...) :hiding:Quote:
Originally Posted by docrobbysherry
Only if it were Angelina Jolie!
Amen to that Karren.
Brandi
I haven't no, and I've never really thought about it, but now you've put the idea there I think it'll be on my bucket list. I wonder if my wife could become one? She's not shy dishing out instructions ;-)
If anyone can find an Angelina Jolie look-alike dominatrix, sign me up immediately!
The problem is, every time I get involved with a Dom, they assume I'm a Sub. I'm anything but that, so I shy away from those gals.:)
Being a dominatrix sounds like an easy way to get multiple butlers that pay you.
I want to go to dominatrix school!
I don't need someone stranger to tell me what to do.... I have a wife....LOL.
I would not go to a Dominatrix for any reason what-so-ever. The term "Dominatrix" usually means a Dominant woman that dominates for money...pay for play if you will. Most do not have sex with their clients...or so I am told and have read many times. But I also would never pay a prostitute for sex either. The whole idea that any woman would cater to my wants, needs or desires solely for the money is a huge turn off to me. When I submit to a woman, it's because she wants to dominant me as much as I want to submit to her. When I have sex with a woman, it's because she wants me as much as I want her. if all a woman wants is my money, it's not going to happen. When you pay a Dominatrix or a prostitute, you are engaged in something that imitates sex or submission, but is not as rewarding as doing either with a woman that wants you as much as you want her. Not for me...ever.
Yes I agree. Or Jennifer Lopez,Madonna.Lady Gaga,Ellen,Sofia V. etc. etc. heheheQuote:
Originally Posted by Karren Hutton
Dominatrix? YIKES! I get paid to be abused at work, not the other way around. Anyone want to call me names or inflict some kind of suffering or whatever they do... at least give ME the money.
Someone who takes my money...tells me what to do...and doesn't have sex with me...that's not a dominatrix...that's my second wife
:bonk::bitchslap:
It's difficult to "force" somebody to wear a dress or lingerie, when they are a bona fida cross dresser. I would gladly dress up en femme for my lovely wife and do the housework. That's what I am doing today in my Talent Plus sun dress and heels. I don't feel humiliated when wearing a dress.
As a game @ playtime with someone I know and have a relationship with...yes. But I have fantasies of a lot of things that will never come true
I don't need anyone to make me dress. I do it myself for free :)
A dominatrix, no. I am not really the submissive type. I would, however, like to find someone around here to teach me one on one about makeup.
That would be very interesting on a tax form under occupation.
Rader
I will never pay for anyone to beat me with a cane.
Just be careful with a dom -- things might get out of control for you and turn into a situation you may not have bargained for.
I haven't been in about 15 years - mostly because I'm married and have no need. When younger, I went to a number of them and had different experiences. I met a couple that had serious problems so you do need to be a little careful (pay attention to your instincts) but 90% are very sane. To be any good the woman needs to get something from it besides money - she has to relate to some aspect of what is going on. If you think about it, it is not an easy job. There is a lot of responsibility involved as they are often dealing with strong emotional needs and vulnerabilities. I would think it could easily become a real burnout job. I've been to dommes who would become friends with their clients. There was one I went hiking and swimming with when not in sessions. Another had me sleep over at her place (no sex). I'm really surprised more people on this board have not done this. If you are a submissive crossdresser and you like women, and you don't have a relationship that can incorporate your crossdressing desires, go see a domme. It can really help relieve the tension to have that female interaction associated with your crossdressing - being completely by yourself can be depressing. Yes, going to a domme can be expensive and you may have to try a few of them to find one you like but it can be worth it - depends what you want/need.
I definitely have some interests within the BDSM realm.
But, I'm definitely also not interested in paying for relationships / sexual activity / whatever you would call it.
I don't know....other than not really being comfortable with giving over control to another person, it was real important for me to "own" this part of myself. Ultimately, it was liberating as well.
I have. I went a few months ago. I enjoy bondage as much as crossdressing. As this was a first for me, it was light bondage. Next time I think I will ask for a bit more restrictive positions... Anyway, I was put restrained against a Saint Andrews cross and laced into a corsett and dressed. Taken to another room and tied to a female medical exam table for hair, makeup, etc. Then taken to a table and restrained for some more fun. Dominatrix was fully clothed the entire time.
If you wish to be strangled I have many friends that will take great pleasure in your suffering. :)
Julia
Just for the record. Mine was free.....She offered it to me free.
No thanks I'll pass.
Well I can safely say that this is one thing that has never been on any of my lists including the bucket one. But what's not one may be everything to others and that's part of what makes us unique. If that's what cranks your tractor, then my all means have fun.
I started out as a dom when a girl asked me to tie her up and I found out how much fun it was to drive her crazy with pleasure. For a variety of reasons, she never reciprocated but enjoyed having me tie her up, tease her, please her, and give her orgasm after orgasm until she literally had to beg me to stop - with a safe-word signal to let me know that she had reached her limit.
About a year later, Connie took my virginity but was frustrated because I wasn't having orgasms. After moving into her own apartment, she tied me up and found that I got very aroused by being helpless. She enjoyed teasing and tormenting me, even a bit of S&M, and I loved it. One day, she had come home from work and I started messaging her feet. She was feeling frisky and started to take off her hose, and I asked her to keep them on. She liked that I liked that and was into it, but then she said "At least YOU don't want to wear them", and I gave a response that indicated she had missed the mark - that I DID want to wear them. The next day she left a note on my car telling me it was over.
My first wife had a bit of a dominant streak, and tied me up and pushed me to new limits several times. The best was the time she tied me up, while I was all dressed in a corset and stockings, she was wearing her corset and stockings, and she had me in a ball gag. Then she threw the condom in the trash and said "we're not using that". Then she whispered in my ear "you'd better enjoy this and make it last, because you'll be living with the consequences for 20 years". It was an incredibly freaky experience. I didn't want to be a father yet, but being helpless and dressed like that, I lost control after about an hour. There were a few other times when she took me past the edge, like the first time she tied me up helpless and then pulled out a dildo and forced it into me. I freaked at first, but after about a minute, I really got into it.
I've had other partners who were also great, but most of them were switches. We'd take turns tying each other up and teasing each other or tormenting each other for hours. One taught me how to be multi-orgasmic. She got me off really quick, but refused to untie me. She started stroking my legs and kissing me and biting me, and then scratching me and whipping me with a riding crop. Before long I was having one orgasm after another to the point where I couldn't stop. Each new climax took more effort until I felt like I was going to pass out or die. I didn't want to stop, but I couldn't be sure I wouldn't die so I safe-worded.
I've been blessed since my first marriage with a few women who really appreciated Debbie, and loved switching with her. This includes my current wife, though she much prefers the dominant role.
I am so envious of you right now :)Quote:
Originally Posted by DebbieL
as someone who has been a Domme, it is a pleasure to indulge my nature as a top by helping a CD through the feminization process--and what comes after is frosting on the cake
Maybe a bit OT but doesn't "dominatrix" sound science-y?
OK! HOW ABOUT THIS SCENE?
forced feminization!
who would like to be kidnapped then forced to look like a model i.e. ffs,hrt,electrolysis,Chastity and for some taught to pleasure men or women or both and pefect your womanly ways.
check out centurianonline for the scene
I would love it been A fantasy of mine for A long time.Quote:
Originally Posted by luscious
Oh my, I'm starting to get arroused just reading some of the stories on here. I'd love to tell some of my experiences here that my wife and I have done. But it would be TMI. We do very rarily indulge in some great fantasy and role playing. I always have had an interest in it and have wondered all of my life what it was all about, and so my natural curiosities finally got to me. So we have whips, chains, dominatrix outfit. Mine is tall thigh high leather boots with seven inch heels, fishnets, leather corset with hook rings on both side for my accesories, chokers, cuffs, whip, etc. I even built a nice upholstered love bench for us too. We have hooks in our playroom just for leashes and binds. When I first walked out of the room after getting ready, I looked in my wife's eyes, she looked afraid. She told me later that when I came out fully in my very expensive dominatrix outfit, she said she was actually afraid of me. I just smiled and said, we're ok honey. But anyway, she absolutley loved that whole evening. I did wake things up in her that she never realised about herself, as well as within me. But anyway, back to the op, I have never visted anything like that. But I did have the thought, maybe I could be a paid dominatrix and whip some a** and be berbally abusive, etc. Maybe I need next to get a credit card swiping machine.
It's odd that some people proclaim they would never pay a domme, yet they willingly pay a physical therapist or masseuse, or to have their nails done, or their hair. A dominatrix provides a professional service that both parties agree on beforehand. They are not prostitutes.
Well that is sure something to think about
I have to admit, i have done this. I never get to share dressing with anyone, so this was my only output. It was more like a "lets get dressed together" type of party not a domination type thing. Plus it gave me the opportunity to enjoy other things that I would have never been able to enjoy.
If I went to a Dom; I would feel like I was cheating on my wife.
And with my luck, the Police would be having one of those stings, and I would
get arrested. Something I do not need.
Rader
Many years ago, I was involved with a lifestyle Domme, i.e. she wasn't in it for the money. We had some fun times, though none including dressing. I think she would have been OK with it, but I wasn't out even to her at that time. Eventually, she asked me to marry her, problem was, she already had a husband, but he was very vanilla. So she wanted a second for fun. I was flattered, and actually considered it, but my life went in a different direction, I have not talked to her in 20+ years. I sometimes wonder what would have happened if I had accepted..................Stephanie
It's one of my interests. But I haven't done it.
Sounds hot to me. Wish I knew one, as long as I found her attractive that is. Not just physically so 'cause Chemistry is everything, dontcha know. Really. A girl doesnt have to be a flaming beauty to be alluring or sexy. That indefinable something that resides on the inside is imo just as or even more important.
You are so right Annaliese. I'm with you on that. A woman doesn't have to be a 10 at first glance. I have dated women that I felt were not attractive at all upon our first meeting, I never let that hold me back, but I see their inner beauty that lies within them, the beauty of their soul and all of who they are. Then my emotional feelings of love begin to blossom and grow as time goes on. Then I go to pick them up at work or meet them for lunch, I smile as they approach my car and they look so attractive to me. That was years ago. For all of us, if we live long enough, outter beauty will fade, but inner beauty will last a lifetime. For as it is now, when I look at and gaze my eyes upon my precious little wife, she will always be beautiful to me, even when we're 82 years old.
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Originally Posted by Tara-mxy
I quite agree, Beauty starts about 1" behind the Eye Balls. It is what in her hare/ brains that you married.
Not necessary her looks witch in time like all of us, will fade away.
There was a song that said some like this;
"If you want a wife, get an ugly wife, she will always stay with you"
I guess it is true in some ways.
I had a teacher tell me, you do not married her looks, but her Irish Temper.
Rader
I always believed that the Dom took on the role that the "customer" required of her. As such, the customer/client is not a "sub" but a "top" and the Dom is the "bottom" fulfilling the desires of he that is not the sub.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kate Simmons
~Samm
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Originally Posted by heathr1
This interests me in theory, but I could never enjoy myself if I was paying someone to spend time with me.
That's an interesting thought. Accepting that premise, the value exchange (monetary), if one pays for the service, is very different than if the relationship occurs between consenting adults. The value exchanged between consenting parties is an exchange of power (control) of the dom over the sub.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sam-antha