You are so right Annaliese. I'm with you on that. A woman doesn't have to be a 10 at first glance. I have dated women that I felt were not attractive at all upon our first meeting, I never let that hold me back, but I see their inner beauty that lies within them, the beauty of their soul and all of who they are. Then my emotional feelings of love begin to blossom and grow as time goes on. Then I go to pick them up at work or meet them for lunch, I smile as they approach my car and they look so attractive to me. That was years ago. For all of us, if we live long enough, outter beauty will fade, but inner beauty will last a lifetime. For as it is now, when I look at and gaze my eyes upon my precious little wife, she will always be beautiful to me, even when we're 82 years old.