Originally Posted by
Lorileah
Scene 2: You see a woman who is exactly what your dreams have been. She is stunning, smart, rich, a great cook, fine lover and perfect in every way. So you made the Santa promise. I will Never ever ever wear, look at, touch women's clothes or look at VS catalogs ever again if I can marry her. You know how that worked out.
Scene 3: same woman, same thoughts except now you tell her. She tells you she can't live with that. You are crushed for a week until...zing the same dream in a different body comes along. You tell her upfront and honest. She says that's Ok with her. You live happily (hopefully) ever after and woman in scene 2 finds another guy who fits her mold. You don't break anyone's heart after several years of living in a tense relationship AND you didn't promise Santa anything more than you would try and be a good boy the rest of the year.
