I heard the term "male lesbian" and I thought that fit me pretty good.
I am 100% straight with no desire to be with a man, but I also enjoy those few times I was intimate with my wife while I was dressed as a woman.
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I heard the term "male lesbian" and I thought that fit me pretty good.
I am 100% straight with no desire to be with a man, but I also enjoy those few times I was intimate with my wife while I was dressed as a woman.
Straight is for pool cues, and bourbon whiskey.
"male lesbian" is an oxymoron and very insulting to lesbians. BTW you men (since so many like to make that a point that that is what you really are) who are straight but still like women aren't in any way shape or form a lesbian, you're straight men who wear clothing designed for women who like women...otherwise known as straight. Now if you're willing to have SRS and then have sex with women without having that appendage, you can call yourself a lesbian.:brolleyes:
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I really do not think there's a little bit of "gay" in me.
I'm hetro now and always have been and to happy being me to ever change.
I am one who has concluded they are Transgender but have no plans to completly transition at this time. I do consider my self straight and am faithful to my wife . Now if I were to transition, and have SRS, I believe I would still consider my straight and would want to be with a man.
Im sexually attracted to sex, with that being said I would like to try a guy out but I am not sexually attracted to men.. its hard to explain.
When I'm in "drab", I'm straight. When I'm in a skirt, bra, and cami, I'm still straight. I don't understand why anyone would think clothes would change that?
No attraction to men at all ever
I am straight as a string, even when I'm dressed, I am all dude!
I'm lifelong straight.
I consider myself to be straight
I like women so much that I even dress like one. Yes, I am completely hetero. I have heard the description "male lesbian" and in deference to a genetic lesbian, I will not call myself that but I would enjoy being intimate with a woman while dressed as one. I have no interest in sex with another male.
Completely straight. Married 35 years to the same woman. 4 children. Never had a homosexual experience. Enjoy sharing my crossdressing with my wife. Never shared it with anyone else. My sexuality has been question by some people over the years, but I really can't say why. Several times I have been asked if I were gay. I will admit I do enjoy viewing other crossdressers and admire the way the dress, but I don't consider that to be gay.
Straight but curious. Does that make sense?
Definitely not interested in men when not dressed but when dressed and feeling all feminine I go get this desire to be treated as a woman by a man.
Lots of strong "straight" affirmations. How much of this is innate, and how much is conditioning? Posts about wanting to be taken as a woman when dressesed but still "straight". Thought a lot about this for myself, and not turned on by male form, but even I wonder how much of this is conditioned learned behavior, and how much is innate. What about those of us attracted to transsexuals with some of both parts?
I not only like girls i dress like one and i am very happy with that all of this
I'm straight as well 😊
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Originally Posted by HollyGreene
You can't possibly know that.
If you were born a different gender you'd be a totally different person from the get go. Therefore you'd have a different mindset.
I am surely heterocentric. Definitely have no homosexual desires or attractions. But, in a submissive role no telling what might happen. I'd really need a safe word.
Straight,but bi curious
Monogomous best describes it. Been bi guess I still am wife fully aware. When Im dressed in lingerie im her gurl so I guess Im a lesbian if that makes sense.
I'm straight. Though I have fantasized about gay encounters when aroused esp while en femme. IRL I would not be attracted to a male. Does that make any sense at all?
I will avoid the "s-------" word because I'm not sure what it means as my presentation changes. But I am only attracted to biological females sexually and emotionally. Men are too rough, aren't interested in the same things as me, and smell bad. There's no way I would want to be intimate with one.
- Diane
I also wonder how many (if any) would be singing a slightly different tune had they not been married for 10, 20, 30+ years -- but instead had been free & single for a good chunk of their adult CD-ing years.Quote:
Originally Posted by Happygirl!
Hey, sometimes the mind can wander & stuff happens under different life circumstances, ya know. ;)
Anyway, I suppose this thread helps to prove that most here are only into GG's, and they can now stop bitching about "all these 'being with a guy' threads." :laughing: :)
Krisi,
I will answer this thread like I answered that one by saying I'm bi-gender and only interested in women, I don't have problem with bi-sexual or gay , I just accept they're wired differently.
Lorileah ,
I was corrected for the misuse of the label Male lesbian, it still feels right with the way my CDing started but it was suggested that I use bi-gender as an alternative. All I can say is that's how I'm wired and and it's never changed over fifty years . I was having this conversation last night with a TS who knew a F/M TS , she was described as a Male Lesbian by her counsellors , she was a lesbian before transition.
Laurababe,
I was almost 40 when I met my wife. She was only the second person I ever dated. I dressed a lot before I met my wife and can say I really never have been attracted to guys.
Sara
Maybe its about making cliques..........but maybe its just reaffirming that we are not alone. Lots of different views here, some like spaghetti and some are intolerant of gluten:)Quote:
Originally Posted by Lorileah
Me too, Josie...Life long straight, conservative, Republican (hope that doesn't offend anyone), married and loyal to my long term wife. I have to stay in the closet with my cross dressing out of respect for her. She's conservative as well and does not like me dressing in girls clothing. So I keep all of my femme stuff hidden and out of sight. I wonder how many happily married straight cross dressers are in the same situation I'm in where you love to dress up and out of respect for your wife's feelings about it, you have to keep things about cross dressing in the closet. When dressed up in girl clothes I have no desire to be with any man at all. I guess I would be considered a lesbian while dressed up. The part about my individual cross dressing is that there is absolutely no possible way to tell that I am a guy when dressed as a girl. If I would find out how to post photos on this site, you could not tell I was a guy while dressed up. Now this took a long time learning about what clothes looked and felt right on me and how to get really good at applying makeup by watching professional videos regarding the application of makeup on line. I will always be straight, will never fool around and always be loyal and true to my wife, and will always enjoy the cross dressing side of my life. Thanks for reading my post...Scarlett
I'm straight
Julie
Scarlett398, I am in the same situation as you. My wife is not at all supportive and I am deep in the closet. However, I am not very presentable in female mode. I hope to change that someday.
As to the question, I am straight but a a little bi-curious with other transgender females. If I were to ever fully transition, I would only be interested in women.
Attracted to women.
That's why I dress.
Still attracted to women when dressed.
I am straight , i just like dressing as a girl. Dee
It's really easy. In the reply to thread box there is a row of symbols at the top, third from right is a square icon, click on that and use the browse button to select your picture and download it. Just need to make sure your image is about 30-40kb or less. I think we'd all like to see how good you look.Quote:
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Straight. But I've had thoughts of being submissive while being dressed;).
I'm straight. I love women but I also happen to love women's clothes.
I too love women & love wearing women's clothes...
...which are now MY clothes since they're now in my possession. lol! ;)
He is straight..... Wendy is a lesbian... That's simple
i am straight I just like cross dressing for sex
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I just like lingerie
I'm absolutely straight and love women as well. For me, it about the clothes and sexuality for me doesn't really come into it TBCH. I mainly dress for comfort and relaxation and as form of expression but for no other reasons beyond that.
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yes I've had the same thoughts as well about being crossdressed with another woman. Quite exciting thoughts actually.
I love and enjoy women so much....... I wanted to join The Club.
No more beautiful creature in Life than a beautiful woman.
My admiration and respect for Women goes much deeper than appreciation of superficial beauty. Women (IMO) are magic. They have spirit, powers & abilities that men can't fathom. Women have been at the core of my life (when I think about it); Mother, Wife... even my daughters. Strongly influenced by women, I have been; more so than any sports coaches, teachers or my father. I've come to appreciate how special a human life form that Woman can be.
Think that says it all.
Most CDers are straight. Not a judgement, just an observation. We have room for all in our ranks. All are welcome.
I am straight. Not claiming it as an attribute. My SO is everything to me.
Straight as an arrow Adore women maybe a bit too much !
Me ... I am attracted to women and their feminine clothes ...
Wow, so many here are straight. I thought I was straight for a long time until one man I knew who had seen me dressed asked to visit me if I would dress for him which I did and was scared to death to do so. I guess it must have been like most women on their first date putting on the makeup right, selection the right dress, shoes and definitely sexy lingerie just in case. Well, he showed up and was quite a gentleman and we chatted and sipped bourbon for quite awhile and he asked how and why I dressed and if I really enjoy being a woman which I obviously said yes. Well, things progressed and he asked if he could kiss me and that was it as I knew I was meant to be a gurl. It was, without going into details a lovely night and one in which he didn't leave until morning. So I guess the answer to this question for me is, no I'm not straight and must say when dressed I really prefer a man.
25,000+ members and only 90-something are straight so far!
LOL, Ressie :laughing:
The rest probably just quit CD'ing. </sarcasm>
I can relate very well to this.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lacyfem
I too, thought I was straight for many years. I began dressing in my teens, although not fully at the time. After the internet came about, I met a man online who seemed interested in me and seemed like a total gentleman. We exchanged pictures and I have to admit,he was quite charming, complimenting me on my looks, ect. After chatting online for some time and talking on the phone with him a few times, I decided to take a chance and invite him over one evening. We watched a romance/comedy movie together and we ended up spending the night together. We ended up seeing each other for several years. Since then, I have had two other long term boyfriends and actually lived with one of them. I still like women, but now I lean more towards men. Its not for everyone of course, but if you are single you might find that you like it, if you're willing to take a chance.
Oh yeah--totally straight. I dig women.
jodi
Straight here. I'm not attracted to men and never have been. There are lots of reasons why I love my Amanda-side, but attracting a man is not on the list.
I am completely and whole heartedly straight, even when I'm dressing. I have no sexual interest in men or male crossdressers. I worship the female body, which, I guess, is the reason I crossdress. When I'm dressing, I guess you could call me lesbian. There are times I wish I had been born female, but I feel I would still prefer women.