the ultimate female challenge

Asuming all working parts pluged in and ready to go...

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As has been said it is the ultimate thing that a woman can do that a man can not, and to say that I am jelous is an understatement.:Angry3:

I would love the feeling of a little baby growing inside me and the sence of purpose that comes with it, I would be complete.

But alas it is never to be a possability, so quit teasing!:tongueout I was not graced with the working parts (politely put) of a GG so I will have to be content with the working parts of a male.
I have no intention of transitioning to womanhood as there is no point (in my view) as I may have the shape of a woman... but would never be a complete woman!

By the way I have no children so I can't tell you if I have any maternal instincts or not, all I can say is that if I was a woman in the fullest extent I would not shy away from the prospect of becoming a mother.
As for the way it is now... all I can hope for is a woman that accepts me (dresses and all) that will mother a child with me as the father.

I would love to have children, to be able to give birth would be great,but that not being possible I would be more than elated to be able to adopt. It's not really about the "ultimate female experience" it's about having a family and raising kids.

I am a dad, and that has been the most rewarding experience of my life. Children are a gift from God, and raising them gives me a purpose in life.

Me being pregnant? I'll pass......

This is one of the many reasons I'm glad I'm a guy. My wife took care of having the kids (she's a wonderful mom). I get to enjoy raising them!

Are you crazy. The main reason most GG's hate idiot's like us is because we love to wear their clothes and enjoy it but don't have to actually pay the price like menopause, hot flashes, insane mood swings, and wanting to kill us half the time. I think being in this position is a blessing as long as we are tolerated by our counter parts who deserve our love and attention for tolerating our behavor. I never wanted to be a woman, I just love to wear thier clothing and have been doing so since I was six.

Hi all -- interesting question and interesting discussion, and a remarkably varied range of responses and opinions -- several of the responses suggest that, at least for the individual authors, the "point" of crossdressing is either to "look" like a woman or "to wear their clothes" -- so my question, in turn, is this: when you are your CD self, or when you are in CD mode," do you feel internally female/feminine? Do you wish to? Do you feel (or prefer to feel) like a guy who happens to be wearing apparel generally considered by society to belong to the female half of society? Do you try to present yourself, by voice and mannerisms, as female/feminine, or do you try to present yourself as gender-bending?
TIA for your thoughts!
Diane

Looking like a woman is enough for me.:)

In a heart beat. To be able to feel something grow and move inside me, would be the ultimate experience. Also, to be able to watch my belly expand and strech over time would be cool to experience. The thought of being pregnant, how it will change me and make me grow as person would make it worth it. Think about this. Many a woman has stated, some of the best sex they ever had was when they were pregant.

On another note. Just because you are able to have kids, does not mean you should.

[SIZE="4"]The short answer is COUNT ME IN! There is a longer answer brewing somewhere in my mind but I haven't formulated it yet and it's likely to end up an essay along the lines of "Common Sense".[/SIZE]

No way! Coming from very emotionally/mentally sick parents myself, who should not have had kids, in the first place, having overwhelming family, and personal issues myself, and emotional/mental illnesses, I should be glad God has not allowed me to have any children, as a guy, and, no way would i want to have any if i could, as a woman. My only sister never had a child, either, as also one brother. I also see, that this present world, has gotten too terrible stressful, and dangerous, and insane, and OVERCROWDED. pOPULATION EXPLOSION, is the threat to world peace, and survival, that no one addresses, anymore! Even if i was without the afflictions i struggle with, unless i lived way, way out from the cities, on a nice farm, or ranch, i would not bring a kid into such a world gone beyond the brink! I applaud all the gg's who have the strength to do it, and can understand, why so many cd's would do so, if possible. I agree with Demonic Daughter. Cats and birds, have been my adopted kids, and they are low maintenance, MOST of the time. Society has always put stigmas, on childless women, men, and couples. The church i have been in, also almost worships breeding kids, and looks down on old childless singles, a lot. I think the time is here, when wise people, will refrain from breeding, due to the times we live in.

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Originally Posted by cindycd

Are you crazy. The main reason most GG's hate idiot's like us is because we love to wear their clothes and enjoy it but don't have to actually pay the price like menopause, hot flashes, insane mood swings, and wanting to kill us half the time. I think being in this position is a blessing as long as we are tolerated by our counter parts who deserve our love and attention for tolerating our behavor. I never wanted to be a woman, I just love to wear thier clothing and have been doing so since I was six.

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I don't think they hate us, I think they feel that we don't understand what it's like to deal with the clothes, hair, make up, shoes, social vulnerability, pregnancy worries, etc. etc., on a daily basis, because they do have to spend quite a bit more maintenance time on themselves that the average guy does. And, for the most part, they're right. But they don't understand our lives either.

yes, yes, yes,

Been in the room a couple times with the wife while she birth babies...looked like she passed bout 10 pounds of her entrails ....not pretty...nothing femm bout it ... definataly not somthing i want to give a try.. more than happy to leave that little tid bit of womanhood up to the professionals..

Joann

[SIZE="3"][SIZE="2"]when asked " is childbirth painful?". Her answer was " imagine if you could take your bottom lip and pull it all the way over your head and hook it on your ears... that will give you an idea how painful it is"[/SIZE][/SIZE]

As AllieSummers said above
There are a few things we have much better than GGs.
1. No PMS.
2. No Periods.
3. No Childbirth.

I love being fem but I draw a line. I'll let GGs keep these 3 things.

I'll pass on that one too!

I have raised three as a father would love to have been able to experience child bearing and raising from a mom's persective. I know one thing, It's a heck of alot of work to be a good mom but well worth it!

Kelsy

I have no desire to actually be female so for me the answer is no.

Oh No!!!:whew!:

call me crazy, but ill try to conceve one day, the pain is only temporary and goes away with time. :p and it would be wonderful to have children!

I've always loved the idea of having another human growing inside me, I believe all the pain and fat would be worth it in the end, I've always wanted to be a mother. I think holding a baby after the birth must be one of the greatest feelings in the world.

Not too long ago, for whatever reason, I happened to eat an ENTIRE BLOCK of cheddar cheese. The resultant labor pains (about 6 hours worth) and.....er, final outcome leads me to never, ever, ever, EVER.....want to give birth. Ever. Yikes.

I've GOT to know why you ate an entire block of cheese.
Lost a bet, frat hazzing, sounds like a story here somewhere....
Nobody just eats a block of cheese.
Enquiring minds want to know........

OMG! I'm 64 years old!

I guess if I had ever actually wanted to be a woman the thought of birth would have come once or twice.

However, I am just a dresser and I never had any thoughts of being a woman.

Probably would have changed my participation in my son's Boy Scout troop, though.

I was hungry.

I ate a lot of cheese.

So, I'm not the brightest bulb on the on the farm. Or whatever. :)

I already have three children, but on every occasion have felt very jealous of my wife, with her being able to experience the sensation of another human life being nurtured inside her. Although obviously stressful & painful, the moment of giving birth would also be such an experience.
In short, yes, without question, I would relish the chance of having a baby should I have been affording the opportunity.

Of course. I've always wanted to be a Mom since I've been little. Despite the feelings, it wasn't to be this time around.:)

yes i would, ive thought about this very subject for years. if like you said i had all the right parts, without hesitation yes i would

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Originally Posted by Crysten

I was hungry.

I ate a lot of cheese.

So, I'm not the brightest bulb on the on the farm. Or whatever. :)

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Hi Jack! j/k

If I thought it might give me wider hips, then I would consider the pain aspect. But not wanting to have any children, not being married, not having a fulltime SO, and/or not knowing what to do with the kid afterwards, I would have to say no.

So no. Yes. Thats it.

I'm 50 now but I would do it if some one said I could have sugery today and get pregnant. I have always wanted to.

I would love to be pregnant, but skip the giving birth part! :) I think pregnant women are gorgeous and I would love wearing maternity wear. Just feeling the bump on your stomach would be amazing knowing there is life growing inside you. I have a pic in an album where I made myself look pregnant, great feeling.

:<3: Ashley :<3:

Yes definitly yes! Id prefer to be a lesbian mom because Im much more in tune in relationships with women than men. But Ive certainly fantasized about that perfect man, but men in real life gernerally are not that appealing to me. My LTRs tend toward butchy women. My GF rides a Harley, I dont. I dont ride Bi*** since Im about 3 feet taller than her and thats just too weird. :)

But beyond that, Ive wanted to be a mom since about 13 (though not be a 13 yr old mother). Im probably TS but can't see myself transitioning as Im now in my 'middle years' with 20 years of professional education and life behind me and risking everything as well as turning my mother's world upside down at this point is more than I can see myself doing. If I understood my feelings and had the options available to me back in those early teen years my life would have been very different.

But still If I ever have children, I'll certainly be more the mom than the dad because that's how Im wired. I can't help it. I have a female soul.

At least then I would have an excuse for my weight and I would have big boobs.

Ummmm....NO.

In response to Bev06, I've already have the tummy bulge and vericose veins (sigh).:straightface:

No thank you.

Shari,

Great question! If I was a woman, had all the right parts, etc., would I want to give birth? Yes. Without hesitation. Whenever I see a pregnant woman, I think to myself, how wonderful it would be to have a baby.

Nothing to think about - 100% YES.
If only wishes could come true!

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Originally Posted by brittdoll

Pardon my French but "No Way in H#@L" would I want to give birth. I couldn't handle the pain of a kindey stone, let alone give birth to a child.

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I've had a kidney stone and it was no fun, but to put it in perspective, my ex's friend Sue had a kidney stone and Sue has also given birth by vaginal delivery to two children. Sue said she'd go for giving birth any day rather than have another kidney stone. Granted, that's one woman's opinion, but one that impressed my wife, who has had C-sections.

no way

the answer is Yes! I would love to get pregnant by the right husband and feel the life grow inside of me, then give birth, and raise the child as a mother. I can't imagine anything more feminine than that

As far as I am concerned my dressing is very much a part of my image of myself and the desire to be a woman in every aspect, including child birth.
But my feelings remain in the realm of hopes, wishes and dreams
Huggs :hugs:
Fiona

If I was Gina Holden ( but with sturdier more muscular legs ) and I was impregnated by Michael Shanks then yes . I fantasize about it often but would be terrified in RL . Absolute answer ...yes . Bloated ankles and frequent peeing , I would want the experience . Life isn't supposed to be comfortable :) .

Nicki .

Edited for my bade speelinge .

under the right circumstances, h Yes!!! I father one child, and raised her, so if I were 20 years younger darn straight I would love to be with child!!!!!!

My mom always says giving birth is easy raise them is the complicated part
and she gave birth seven times:hugs:

Oh yes, without question or doubt, I definitely would love to be pregnant and to give birth to my own child. There is just one caveat, I'd have to be in my 20's again. :battingeyelashes:

Nicole

yes i would. after all i have gone through this past few weeks " srs " thats the closest I'll ever come to given birth. "still can't sit or walk too far"

like others have said i would like to be young again.

HMMMM If I could be pregnant? I have told my wife that I would if I could, but I can't so I won't. But If I could I would have to say YES I would. that would definately be an experience. Seeing as my wife went thru it 4 times I think I could handle it 1 time. So would that make me 25% woman then?
A fantasy that I have had to be pregnant and give birth the only problem that I see with this is explaining to my wife how I became pregnant. LOL although I don't think she would find that part funny. But to feel a baby move and push their little feet around that would be awesome. I am a sensitive man as I cryed at all 4 of my childrens births (never thought I would but the tears they just seemed to keep flowing) I would definately say yes to carrying a child but with my luck I would probably have twins. :daydreaming: The thought of mothering a child. Would I be better at it then as a father. HMMMM

the act of concieving sounds nice,But no way I dont like seeing blood .especaily my own.I have a week stomach. diapers eeeewie.no thanx

So after reading through, I realized I can't leave this point alone.

Am I to assume none of you consider adoption feminine? You're still raising a child who needs love and nurturing. Who gives a damn where it came from?

In my opinion, what you do is a hell of a lot more important than what you "are." So giving birth is "proof" that you're feminine? That's an utter misconception dug up from gender stereotypes. Giving birth doesn't prove you're feminine; it just proves you're biologically female. And what sort of message would that otherwise give to GFs who are unable to bear children? That they're failures as feminine women?

I'm sorry, but I have a major sensitivity to the stigma of adoption. Adopted people seem to be the one minority that's still okay to piss on.

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Originally Posted by Shari

Now for the absolute ultimate female question. You don't get any more female than this.

Assuming all the right parts, how many of you would want to give birth?

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Wow, I can't believe what I'm reading. Giving birth makes you ultimately female? I can totally understand a TS wanting this, but a CD... c'mon... it's pure fantasy. Giving birth is not ultimately female, it's bloody hard work, it's painful, it can be degrading, it can lead to a hell of a lot of complications, including post natal depression. Would that be ultimately female for you eh? :brolleyes:

And what about those that can't have children, aren't they ultimately female enough then? :thumbsdn: :thumbsdn:

Its kinda funny,
I am begining to realize that the reason why I don't want kinds as a man is because I can not give birth!
I see pregnant women and I am jealous of them, I want the beautiful belly, and I will gladly take all of the pain it goes along with to experience it!
I think it is the epitome of womanhood!

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Originally Posted by becca1125n

I think it is the epitome of womanhood!

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No it's not :slap: and as you're not a woman, you can't even say it.

People keep saying, this is womanly, that is womanly, blah blah blah... seriously, giving birth is far from being womanly you can get... :brolleyes:

If you all think that being on a bed legs wide open with everything being on show for people to see, and you screaming and shouting is the ultimate female thing to do, then you really are so naive or stupid.