the ultimate female challenge

[Maia Saturn]

I was hungry.

I ate a lot of cheese.

So, I'm not the brightest bulb on the on the farm. Or whatever.

Hi Jack! j/k

If I thought it might give me wider hips, then I would consider the pain aspect. But not wanting to have any children, not being married, not having a fulltime SO, and/or not knowing what to do with the kid afterwards, I would have to say no.

So no. Yes. Thats it.

[carrie-ann]

I'm 50 now but I would do it if some one said I could have sugery today and get pregnant. I have always wanted to.

[XdresserAshley]

I would love to be pregnant, but skip the giving birth part! I think pregnant women are gorgeous and I would love wearing maternity wear. Just feeling the bump on your stomach would be amazing knowing there is life growing inside you. I have a pic in an album where I made myself look pregnant, great feeling.

Ashley

[Ingrid1999]

Yes definitly yes! Id prefer to be a lesbian mom because Im much more in tune in relationships with women than men. But Ive certainly fantasized about that perfect man, but men in real life gernerally are not that appealing to me. My LTRs tend toward butchy women. My GF rides a Harley, I dont. I dont ride Bi*** since Im about 3 feet taller than her and thats just too weird.

But beyond that, Ive wanted to be a mom since about 13 (though not be a 13 yr old mother). Im probably TS but can't see myself transitioning as Im now in my 'middle years' with 20 years of professional education and life behind me and risking everything as well as turning my mother's world upside down at this point is more than I can see myself doing. If I understood my feelings and had the options available to me back in those early teen years my life would have been very different.

But still If I ever have children, I'll certainly be more the mom than the dad because that's how Im wired. I can't help it. I have a female soul.

[JenniferZ2009]

At least then I would have an excuse for my weight and I would have big boobs.

[Heather65]

Ummmm....NO.

In response to Bev06, I've already have the tummy bulge and vericose veins (sigh).

[Debbie new]

No thank you.

[Gennifer]

Shari,

Great question! If I was a woman, had all the right parts, etc., would I want to give birth? Yes. Without hesitation. Whenever I see a pregnant woman, I think to myself, how wonderful it would be to have a baby.

[~Emma D~]

Nothing to think about - 100% YES.
If only wishes could come true!

[Jenny Wilson]

Pardon my French but "No Way in H#@L" would I want to give birth. I couldn't handle the pain of a kindey stone, let alone give birth to a child.

I've had a kidney stone and it was no fun, but to put it in perspective, my ex's friend Sue had a kidney stone and Sue has also given birth by vaginal delivery to two children. Sue said she'd go for giving birth any day rather than have another kidney stone. Granted, that's one woman's opinion, but one that impressed my wife, who has had C-sections.

[jenna_woods]

no way

[kinky_caitlin]

the answer is Yes! I would love to get pregnant by the right husband and feel the life grow inside of me, then give birth, and raise the child as a mother. I can't imagine anything more feminine than that

[fiona_libby]

As far as I am concerned my dressing is very much a part of my image of myself and the desire to be a woman in every aspect, including child birth.
But my feelings remain in the realm of hopes, wishes and dreams
Huggs
Fiona

[RiverdanceGirl]

If I was Gina Holden ( but with sturdier more muscular legs ) and I was impregnated by Michael Shanks then yes . I fantasize about it often but would be terrified in RL . Absolute answer ...yes . Bloated ankles and frequent peeing , I would want the experience . Life isn't supposed to be comfortable .

Nicki .

Edited for my bade speelinge .

[Angie F]

under the right circumstances, h Yes!!! I father one child, and raised her, so if I were 20 years younger darn straight I would love to be with child!!!!!!

[Barbara Dugan]

My mom always says giving birth is easy raise them is the complicated part
and she gave birth seven times

[Nicole Brown]

Oh yes, without question or doubt, I definitely would love to be pregnant and to give birth to my own child. There is just one caveat, I'd have to be in my 20's again.

Nicole

[MJ]

yes i would. after all i have gone through this past few weeks " srs " thats the closest I'll ever come to given birth. "still can't sit or walk too far"

like others have said i would like to be young again.

[Kerigirl2009]

HMMMM If I could be pregnant? I have told my wife that I would if I could, but I can't so I won't. But If I could I would have to say YES I would. that would definately be an experience. Seeing as my wife went thru it 4 times I think I could handle it 1 time. So would that make me 25% woman then?
A fantasy that I have had to be pregnant and give birth the only problem that I see with this is explaining to my wife how I became pregnant. LOL although I don't think she would find that part funny. But to feel a baby move and push their little feet around that would be awesome. I am a sensitive man as I cryed at all 4 of my childrens births (never thought I would but the tears they just seemed to keep flowing) I would definately say yes to carrying a child but with my luck I would probably have twins. The thought of mothering a child. Would I be better at it then as a father. HMMMM

[Krissie1962]

the act of concieving sounds nice,But no way I dont like seeing blood .especaily my own.I have a week stomach. diapers eeeewie.no thanx

[Ze]

So after reading through, I realized I can't leave this point alone.

Am I to assume none of you consider adoption feminine? You're still raising a child who needs love and nurturing. Who gives a damn where it came from?

In my opinion, what you do is a hell of a lot more important than what you "are." So giving birth is "proof" that you're feminine? That's an utter misconception dug up from gender stereotypes. Giving birth doesn't prove you're feminine; it just proves you're biologically female. And what sort of message would that otherwise give to GFs who are unable to bear children? That they're failures as feminine women?

I'm sorry, but I have a major sensitivity to the stigma of adoption. Adopted people seem to be the one minority that's still okay to piss on.

[Tamara Croft]

Now for the absolute ultimate female question. You don't get any more female than this.

Assuming all the right parts, how many of you would want to give birth?

Wow, I can't believe what I'm reading. Giving birth makes you ultimately female? I can totally understand a TS wanting this, but a CD... c'mon... it's pure fantasy. Giving birth is not ultimately female, it's bloody hard work, it's painful, it can be degrading, it can lead to a hell of a lot of complications, including post natal depression. Would that be ultimately female for you eh? :brolleyes:

And what about those that can't have children, aren't they ultimately female enough then?

[Maddie22]

Its kinda funny,
I am begining to realize that the reason why I don't want kinds as a man is because I can not give birth!
I see pregnant women and I am jealous of them, I want the beautiful belly, and I will gladly take all of the pain it goes along with to experience it!
I think it is the epitome of womanhood!

[Tamara Croft]

I think it is the epitome of womanhood!

No it's not and as you're not a woman, you can't even say it.

People keep saying, this is womanly, that is womanly, blah blah blah... seriously, giving birth is far from being womanly you can get... :brolleyes:

[Sandra]

If you all think that being on a bed legs wide open with everything being on show for people to see, and you screaming and shouting is the ultimate female thing to do, then you really are so naive or stupid.