I think thats the make or break of the entire experience first and foremost.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shari
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I think thats the make or break of the entire experience first and foremost.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shari
NOBODY ties me up. I will not allow anyone to put me in a helpless situation.
I have been handcuffed by the police once, spent one night in jail, made two deliveries into state prisons, and been in the "Alert" area of an Air Farce base. I do not like the feeling of having limited or no options.
On the other side, I also do not like having that kind of power over other people.
I am a free spirit and I do what I have to to stay that way.
Paula T; You can call me a chicken all day if it pleases you. I see myself as an eagle.
If bondage is your thing, then enjoy it, but it's not for me.
I love BDSM. My girlfrliend does some with me, but I would love more. We are working on it. I just love being a bond ****. Who gets whipped for whatever offence she happens to come up with. Kay has said that she has *** from whipping me. What a thrill for a submissive ****, her Mistress can *** just from whipping her. Sometimes I am dressed as the maid. Other times jsut the **** with short skirts and tight tops. The pain part hurts of course, but what a thrill before and after. And if you start the pain slow and work up it is easier. But I just love it all. Sherrii
You luck girl, Sherrii
When your wife or girlfriend comes up behind you and whispers softly in your ear, "Put your hands behind your back darling.".....works for me !!!
And bondage either does, or it doesn't! I practiced self bondage for 30 years before I started dressing.
I could write for hours about the erotic positions and scenarios I attempted, and/or accomplished. When I was in my "suspension stage", I rigged a heavy weight to drop, pulling me up in the air. Held titely by my feet and hands. I had also rigged a release cord, which I held in one hand. Unfortunately, my weight would not allow the slip knot to release!:devil:
After an hour or so, suspended that way, I finally worked one hand free.:)
During that time, I wondered what the neighbor would say, if I yelled for help!
And if he came in to find me hanging naked from a ceiling beam!:heehee:
I had to wear long sleeve shirts for 3 weeks, until my wrists healed up!:o
I think that was near the END of my "suspension stage"!:D
My gg girlfreind offered to do a little mild b&d with me over 15 years ago. Nowadays I'm 52 and I have health problems. So that means that maybe if I was tied up wrong it could cause nerve damage or something. So I guess the alternative is very manipulative but mild s&m. I think there's nothing wrong with this kind of fetish stuff between adults.
Brenda Boston,
Oh I love it when the wife out of no were will walk up to me after I am fully dress and have that grin on her face, as to this day she loves to tie and gag me. Her words are you will stay home today and keep me company. Only problem I have is I spent so much time getting dress and doing my makeup and my hair and makeup ends up a huge mess. :hugs:
I'm not sure if this would be pretty exciting or dangerous!Quote:
Originally Posted by docrobbysherry
Anyway, I've done the self bondage thing, but not much of it without my wife anymore. One important thing I have found is that good leather cuffs and wide leather belts are much prefered over ropes. Even when applied tightly, leather cuffs and wide leather belts/straps leave little or no marks. Most of the time whatever marks they do leave are gone in a couple of hours. I've made several sets myself that are as good as the best that money can buy and I'm too cheap to buy those!
Not into bondage - but enjoy whatever floats your boat !
JoAnne Wheeler
Absolutely yes to bondage while dressed. My wife is not as adventurous as myself in many areas but bondage is one area she is comfortable with albeit light enough bondage that i could get out in an emergency. I always wear feminine things when bound. May be to do with the old westerns with girl tied to railway line :)
I love it, being helpless and instructed is a great turn on for me! I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one who has a good time with this.
Lacey
I said it with a smile dear and wasn't meant to be unkind:eek:Quote:
Originally Posted by Lawren
No prob, hun. I didn't take it personally. Just my wry sense of humor showing through..Quote:
Originally Posted by Paula T
Always been a bit of a fantasy for me. But my wife is TOTALY not into anything out of teh norm. So I guess it will have to just stay in my dreams.
For years it's been my fantasy. But I have to wait a few days before my 'equipment' ships to find out if I like it for real :D
I have been a Dom, as a man, for many years. I am curious what it would be like as a sub while I am dressed, haven't tried it yet.
"Without Pain there can not be Pleasure"
Hi Shari i have experienced both ends as a sub and Now a dom, the surprising thing is there are lots of gurls who are submissive when dressed and its something that is wonderful with the right person or persons. :hugs:Quote:
Originally Posted by Shari
I've had thoughts of bondage before I got into my CDing.
Today, I enjoy it very much when I'm fully dressed or when I'm just wearing nothing, but pantyhose.
Last year, I had two professional bondage sessions where, in one session, I played the role of a naughty school girl and in the other I was a naughty office girl. OMG! They were sooooooo much fun! :D
I wouldn't mind exploring that a little more.
Hugs!
Extremely similar to myself. Usually once a week i am left for about 3 hours in light bondage (which i can get out of in an emergency) and feel absolutely wonderful.Quote:
Originally Posted by Veronica Lacey
I accidentally wore a pair of "A" pantyhose once is that bondage?
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Originally Posted by docrobbysherry
Wow, Doc, you really live dangerously.
Be safe out there ;) We kinda ned you around ya know.
*hugs*
Zarabeth
My wife and I have played a few times - not nearly as much or recently as I would like. We have played with rope, straps, or cuffs - sometimes when I have been dressed only in lingerie but two or three times when I was dressed in lingerie and a dress or skirt and blouse. :D I prefer to be the bottom but understand the need to switch from time to time. When my wife has played top or bottom at various times on several occasions. In some cases, we role played in a hotel room. She always seemed to enjoy it but doesn't want any part of it anymore. :sad:
When I was very young - around 10 or 11, I would dress up and dable in some self bondage. Like docrobbysherry, I preferred complete suspension because I found I could rig in a manner that my weight caused the bonds to tighten making for a more pleasurable experience for me. Making a reliable release mechanism was always a challenge but I was careful enough to always test the release under load to be sure I wouldn't become trapped and eventually, tremendously embarassed. My favorite location happed to also be in a seldom used root cellar removed from the house inside a garage that was also seldom used. Thus, I had significant risk that had I been unsuccessful in releasing myself, I could have been stuck for days and days - dressed en-femme.
I found each of the above to be very very enjoyable. I wish my wife still did.
[SIZE="2"]Being a part-time bondage model, yeah I guess I like bondage.:battingeyelashes:[/SIZE]
I love being sub. I met this cute guy a long time ago, and his basement was stocked with bondage gear. It was a fun night :censor:
I've never been into real BDSM kinda stuff, but I am constantly curious about the things that have been a "normal" part of history.
Corsets, for example. I have been tightly laced for several days in a row and I've enjoyed the sensations, but I also knew that after a few days I'd have the luxury of the unlaced life again. But what about the perfectly ordinary girls and women who were able to take daily corseting in stride for most of their adult life. Surely there must have been times when the constriction was maddening, when all they wanted was just to get the food to go down into their congested stomach or to get just one or two really deep breaths into their compressed lungs, yet they went right on smiling and conversing. What is it really like to do that day after day?
While it may not be bondage in the traditional sense, but it is the stuff that gets my mind (and sometimes my body) wandering.
My ex wife liked bondage, if i could dress then I would play. You'd have to be pretty good to get me tied up. Presently it's not on my list of things to do.
i enjoy bondage and mild disipline forced to do whatever is a hughe rush when it is someone i love doing the directing. games while dressed would just be icing on the cake.usually i'm naked while bound at least so far......spanking is a hughe turn on for me as is other forms of pain if done safely can't stress the safety enough. Morgan
I have often described being captured and kept as ‘freeing’. For me what would be stressful and torturous to others is the ultimate sensual release.
Yes I love being bound, chained, caged, boxed, mummified, all that and much more. And I enjoy bondage not at all except when I am my girl self! I have zero desire to be captured and engage in B&D activities unless I am fully Jodi.
I can only surmise that when a girl, my softer, submissive self is ‘allowed’ to step forward. That inner person upon release craves capture, wants to surrender to the whims of a controlling master or mistress.
Sexually, it is a unique rush that results in unparallel orgasms.
Why is hard to say, but I believe the imperative is hard wired, as is the case with crossdressing for so many of us.
I can recall as a child, getting hard every time a movie with a young male in it featured said young male being trapped, imprisoned or bound in some way. I first noticed this at about age 6 or 7, so something on a DNA level turned me on about such scenes many years prior to my first wet orgasm.
Being Jodi does not always equate to a B&D and/or S&M scene tagging along. But the most memorable nights of Jodi play, usually do! Certainly not for everyone, but for those who enjoy it, it is essential.
My crappy page and a touch of bondage too: http://profiles.aim.com/JodiNYCTV.
Okay, I admit it, I am a little kinky.......:devil:
I really enjoy when my wife takes control and has her way with me. Of course I must be dressed in a corset, stockings and heels. We have a collar, wrist cuffs, a spreader bar, a ball gag and plenty of soft nylon rope.
Oh yeah, she has a riding crop for when I have been a bad girl......:spank:
[quote=mj;1460977then let the fun begin[/quote]
Not my cup of tea, but enjoy yourself! :)
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One of my recurring fantasies is to be forcibly feminized by one or more GGs. It is pure fantasy because first, I am already pretty well feminized and two, my SO shows no inclination to dominate me in this way,
NO!! Not you, sis!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Samantha43
*giggles*
Ok, so I'm a lil kinky too, but I gotta be the one holding the crop... or else!
*hugs*
Zarabeth
Moderate bondge is also nice, like being in a warm soft deep patch of mud that acts like quicksand. Imagine your pantyhose covered toes squish the warm mud as you walk forward and beging to sink. The mud turns into sucking quicksand and pulls you in squeezing against your legs as you struggle to get free sinking up to the tops of your legs and just touching....
Well That kind of bondage feels great and got to share it once too. Yes She had a leotard on for me, BTW
I will have to admit that I have kinky side, only right now I don't have a partner that I can trust.
flickr.com/photos/cdcassie
no.....
I love BDSM and many many things kinky, but it doesn't have that much to do with dressing. OK, some of my clothes are fetish clothes. I do own a custom made full length leather corset and most would consider my nail length a fetish (it is). but whether or not I'm dressed has little to do with whether or not I'm interested in BDSM
I'm into bondage and especially Shabari, both as top and bottom. I've actually been trained in Shabari (japanese erotic bondage) and I have a flickr group dedicated to Shabari and Trans girls.
http://www.flickr.com/groups/tshibari/
Marla
holy cow...such a long thread too and on my favorite topic!
Into bondage? Umm ya.For all my life . I sub'd for 13 years, but now am primarily dominant, though I definitely still like to sub on occasion. My spouse is also my slave,and I have a tgrl I domme as well who I'm quite proud of. And I do play with pain, though certainly it's not everyones cup of tea. Just a part of the whole bi-poly-kinked package.
Amanda
this is one of the longest running threads that I've ever seen on CD.com---goes to show what a lot of interest BD/SM has for the transgendered community
I really enjoy wearing a tight corset, garter belt and stockings, and a nice pair of fme boots. Then a sexily dressed woman taking control of things with a crop and some fun bondage equipment too............ummmmmmmmmm
My wife and I played alot until she passed, hope to find the special woman again someday.
Wow! After atarting this thread in October, i nevr imagined how popular it would become.
Thanks for all of you who took the time to write and share.
A bit of an eye opener, isn't it?
Just shows to go you that you're never really alone in most anything that you do.
Thanks again girls!
I feel honored by your participation.
I have to honestly say that I have never had the desire to be tied up. I try to be a good and wholesome girl..lol However, I don't always succeed, and there are times when I just need a good spanking!
I'm not telling but shrink wrap can be fun too:eek:
this is a very cool thread! nice to see so many kinky devils out there and a lot of tolerance from those not so inclined!
I love it! Tie me up now!!!
MMMppph!
LOL
eleven thousand hits!!!!! Bring it on! It is a can of worms opened there! When I was 11 and thought i was the only CD in the world it was a great feeling to discover I was not alone.. and this thread makes me feel the same way. why is it so sexy I have no idea. There is tah element of helplessness but mainly for me the items themselves have become fetishistic. I get turned on just looking at collars, cuffs and gags which in itself has nothing to do with CDing. My kinky nature is evolving all the timeand I love it!
Oooh, I'm jealous of you, you sexy devil. How I would love to be in cuffs and a ball gag! Yumm! :cheer:Quote:
Originally Posted by Samantha43
Yep, nothing wrong with it. Mild bondage, spanking, nipple clamps and tease, whips - but I hate her bull whip! - handcuffs and silk scarves. Gently does it, all dressed up, mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.
The only thing that my wife would do is to duct tape me to the lawn mower. Leanne
if we would be allowed to post some pics of ourselves in "distressing" situations? Maybe in the "Risky Business" section?
Assuming the " no nudity, nipples, bulges, etc.", rules were obeyed?:brolleyes:
I've got some of Sherry, but hesitate to post them-----?:eek:
I've got to 'fess up too. I've had b/d fantasies ever since gaining admission to the adult magazine section. My wife is extra vanilla, so nothing will ever happen there. So it remains fantasy, but the imagination is a very fertile playground! Uncanny how much some of us girls have in common.