And bondage either does, or it doesn't! I practiced self bondage for 30 years before I started dressing.

I could write for hours about the erotic positions and scenarios I attempted, and/or accomplished. When I was in my "suspension stage", I rigged a heavy weight to drop, pulling me up in the air. Held titely by my feet and hands. I had also rigged a release cord, which I held in one hand. Unfortunately, my weight would not allow the slip knot to release!

After an hour or so, suspended that way, I finally worked one hand free.

During that time, I wondered what the neighbor would say, if I yelled for help!
And if he came in to find me hanging naked from a ceiling beam!

I had to wear long sleeve shirts for 3 weeks, until my wrists healed up!

I think that was near the END of my "suspension stage"!:D