Honestly, I'll have to get back to you on that... ;P
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Honestly, I'll have to get back to you on that... ;P
Straight male crossdresser here. When I told my wife I liked to wear women's clothes the first thing she asked was "Are you gay?" (This was after more than thirty years of marriage). I think it's a mistake many folks make thinking crossdressers are gay. I think most are straight.
I've never been sexually attracted to men and I can't think of a single one that I would want to get that close to even if I was dressed as a female at the time.
I agree with you, but MUST add the following exception... And after a great deal of careful thought and consideration, that exception would be Johnny Depp. If the opportunity ever presented itself, I feel I would be more than willing to "take one for the team."Quote:
Originally Posted by Krisi
I definitely consider myself bi as I still like women but when I am dressed all I want is to be with a man but i am very fussy and don't find many men attractive. I sometimes see someone and think 'wow' but that doesn't happen very often.
There is also a nervous aspect to it but I know that one day I will find a guy who likes me dressed and we can be intimate. I do also feel that when I am dressed I want to act like a women, especially in bed. The trouble is I cannot stop thinking about it. My experiences with women, i.e. 3 divorces have left me not really wanting to be involved with a women again even though i do find them attractive.
So .......... straight, 'not at all'. Bi 'probably'....... Gay 'definitely'. Bit of a contradiction but when dressed I am 100% gay and feel cool about it.
The day I do eventually get my dream I know I will be a great girly lover to my man and he will feel like he wants more of me, which will be good.
Lucy Lou xx
Wow. Lucy Lou get out of my head. That's EXACTLY how I feel.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lucy Lou
Thanks Shadeauxmarie. I love it when someone answers one of my comments, especially a comment like that. We will get there. Kisses Lucy Lou.xx
I'm not going to read all 157 posts on this thread just to put in my two cents. I get the idea. My thought: If you have only been with women up till now and only fantasize about men or other gurls then you may say you are straight. If you get physical with another gurl or man AND want to do it again you are bi or gay. Now doesn't that simplify matters.
It's the same with me. I consider myself a little bi, because I can get easily turned on by cds and transgirls.Quote:
Originally Posted by Erica Marie
Put it this way: I always chuckle when people refer to me as "the straightest guy I know," or things of that ilk.
In general, I'm far more attracted to femininity than masculinity. But I'll take a lover as my heart and mind and the butterflies in my belly see fit.
Fair enough?
Haven't played outside this marriage, but definitely Bi. Au femme, could definitely see myself in the arms of some gentleman, and maybe more.
Careful there Traci, that "maybe more" will get you in trouble every time.
Pan-sexual here... :D
Pansexual here, I fall in love with the person regardless of gender.
Well I enjoy dressing up and like to feel girly, but although I consider myself straight I do think about what it would be like to be with a man... actually another cross dresser, so I think that if I were ever in a situation where I had the chance to explore being bi then if I were brave enough at the time I'd very much like to think I'd go for it and see.
I've always thought of things just "evolving" or shifting, as some of you have pointed out. What does it matter, as long as one's happy?
Pansexual and quite happy at the moment to be on my own. If something happens with someone then I'll be happy with that too. My day's of labeling people are long gone. "There's one life and there's no return and no deposit, one life and it's time to open up your closet". I think one limits oneself by limiting others. I don't care what anyone does with their genitals as long as it's consensual. Have fun ladies and gentlemen.
I have wondered at times if my crossdressing meant that I might be gay. I have never had the desire to be with a man. Recently though, I have had dreams of being with another CD. I am caught up with the look of a beautiful figure in skirts/dresses, heels or boots and hosiery. I've seen on the internet pictures of CD's who are to me very attractive dressing this way and I have fantasies about being with them. Not sure what that makes me. I definitely love the site of a beautiful woman but there's always a chance I could be attracted to a CD as well.
I will admit that I am 100% Bi...... When I was younger, I enjoyed both guys and girls. Since I have been married, that has stopped and I am completely faithful to my wife of 30+ years. Don't get me wrong, there have ben times I thought about dressing up and straying, my wife would help to handle that desire to stray. It is funny that we both can look at guys or woman and comment on their looks, if they are hot or not.
I'm straight but bi-curious, mostly in fantasy. In femme mode, I fantasize about being with men, usually with a woman present. I've had a couple of real life bi experiences but they have never lived up to the fantasy.
What Pamela said,but no real life experiences,only the fantasy. :(
I would say im bi-curious, never had the guts to go through with anything tho.
Personally I'm not nor have I ever been attracted to a male whether dressed fem or not. I am attrated to females and think about them all the time looking like them or being with a female as well.
I think that I must be a lesbian....................
I've never spent to much time worrying about exactly what box I fit in but I do consider myself bi with more of a preference for women. I never really questioned my sexuality too much and no matter what it is, I'm not going to be ashamed of it.
Totally straight. However wanting to experiment with a MtF or FtM. Thanks porn. lol.
So apparently I'm not only not a guy, but I am not straight either, I am a big ol' trans lesbian. A really big trans lesbian...
i love my wife, but when I'm dressed i think about being with another cd. so curious bi
I had doubts when I was a teenager, but then I fell in love with a girl. It didn't work out in the end, but I realized that I was definitely into girls and definitely not into dudes.
Always ben straight..but…
6 years of being a girl in Second Life i went from lesbian to slave to bi curious, my default preference became pleasing anyone who liked me, and really enjoying pleasing them who ever they were, however they present. And so, now i am XDressing and imagining getting together socially, i am a little nervous/excited about what i might be willing to do. Can i be a straight guy with an inner bi girl? And how would i react if i were dressed en femme and someone treated me like a lady? Its a heady fantasy. kisses to you all
Not into men ,never have never will, jus women fem or drab
I've pretty much dressed on and off my whole life and considered myself straight though a few encounters when quite young. Now being majorly into dressing and with wife not knowing and having had several affairs with men who loved me dressed and enjoying my fem side I am questioning straight, bi or gay. I no longer have sex with the wife and it's mostly by my choice so I'm lean towards the gay side but that side is only prevelant when I'm dressed. I do love to look at pretty women but mostly admiring how they are dressed, wondering what lingerie they have on, checking their makeup if done nicely and how their female persona comes through for me to emmulate. So I'm gay fem I guess though honestly I've beeing in bed with a man in which we were both unclothed. Ok... gay I guess!
I've always been drawn to dressing, and turned on by it, with all the normal fantasies included. Lately, I've felt I might be converting more into somewhat of an admirer of CD/TG's. Dressing still intrigues me, but I wouldn't need to be dressed to imagine myself with another Cd/TG/TS. I still have not done it in real life......yet.
i am more into WOMENS SHOES love dressing and latley i am more drawn to passable cross dressers and male to female TG i like women genetig, just feminneniety
I am as straight as I need to be, I would rather get the best of both worlds but I am very picky with what kind of guys I like. Only drawback is that I've never had the chance to really take it anywhere so most people see me as straight.
For the most part I am attracted solely to women, and all of my relationship experiences have been with women. ...I won't deny that the occasional, few and far between, guy strikes my fancy... and I also won't deny having "experimented" a bit a few years ago...
I'm with Shari. I have fantasies about being with women and at the same time, I fantasize about being a submissive to men.
I don't think I need a label for what I am. I love whoever I love whatever they may be. I will have sex with anyone I care for and find attractive.
I have no real life experience , buy have fantasies about cds and tgs, but in real I have been straight.
Well dressed as a woman I dream of having a boyfriend to take me out, do stuff with. It would be like the last step in being a woman. I think it might also be fun to find a lesbian who might be into a guy all dressed up in fem. You know I would be her girl.
It seems to be an ongoing journey of self-discovery. I've been with cisgender women, cisgender men, and transmen. I'm also attracted to transwomen and gender-fluid people and others. I love men who are feminine and women who are masculine.
Just so I don't seem, ahem, prolific (not that there's anything wrong with that), I've only had five sexual partners: two were straight girls, two were gay guys, and one was a transman. I'm actually very picky, but I can be attracted to people of various sex and gender identities. I suppose that makes me pansexual? :strugglin
I'm still confused about my own identity, but the more I accept myself and the fact that I'm attracted to all sorts of people, the more fabulous things become!
I've only ever loved women. I have had one night flings with Cross-dressers but when I do I see it as more of a lesbian oriented relationship, I don't see cross-dressers as male/female, I guess it's the third sex that has been written about in many forums.
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Originally Posted by Shananigans
You rock in so many ways I don't even know where to begin. Thanks!
recently the lies are blurry: I always thought I was straight, but now that I dress:
I fantasize about being a girl ALL the WAY. I dream about having a handsome guy, strong and masculine, making love to me.
Never had any occasion to even come close to that, since in the closet.
Candy in a pink fog, thick and pink.
After much reflection I am forced to conclude that....the guys who actually volunteered to have "strain gauges" attached to them while watching porn selected by others are way weirder than me.
I used to attach strain gauges to things. I can't imagine how you'd do it to a penis and get a worthwhile result. It never came up in conversation at work either.
ive not had realy any proper relationship with a woman longer than a month or so an it was realy because of social anxiety which still plagues me to this day... on to how straight i am well.... i often fantazie of what it would be like to be taken out on dates by a man an treated as a woman and then doin as what all g,g's do. i often visit ******* sites an this is a great turn on, but out of my female clothes i would be disgusted with my self
I find women attractive regardless of how I am dressed, but also regardless of how I am dressed I find men just window dressing.
I must be bi , if I want sex I've got to buy it.
I like Big Strong Boys. I like Big Strong Girls. I like girly males. I like butch girls. I like mixes of both.
Be an interesting person and I'm Interested. Those other details don't matter.
- MM
I find men repulsive. Body hair is a huge turnoff personally. I prefer to be smooth as a guy or girl. I love women as a guy or girl. Guess you can call me a straight male or lesbian as a female. But that doesn't mean I can't have platonic female friends because I have had many of those since I was a kid. I don't want acgirl to think we can't be gfs because I'm not interested in every girl I meat like some guys. I do enjoy the friendship of some girls without getting inside their panties...I just want to know where they got them from so I can get a pair for myself :)
I'm just starting my journey. I'm not interested in men except as a complement to my feminine self. I don't know where I will end. I don't care either...