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It happened to me many times when i was teen. But I had only a few pieces of feminine clothes, mostly skirts. Looking back it was for bad reasons.
Now i've "built" the perfect outfit i was searching, there is no way i would purge again. I've decided bad reasons can go to hell.
Oh yes ! The whole lot a few years back ...... I felt so good on disguarding it all . A month later I felt a right berk regretting it all . I've told my wife about the experience , even informed her I've considered doing it again . Thank goodness she quite frankly remarked if I were ever to get to that point again to just shut the bedroom door where all the clothes are kept , let her know and go and do something else until the notion passes .
Odd isn't it , seems like it happens to some of us in similar circumstances . I've been keeping items of little or no use in my garage for years . Things like old tools , hinges ,bits n bobs , electrical items . It's sods law that soon after clearing out my garage , I was then one day looking for an old item only to have found I'd chucked it out .
Hoarding seems to be an obsession - lol !
Mind you , either way , chucked out female clothing , make up ect , or letting my garage turn into a thrift shop , sometimes brings a stern telling off and earache .
I love it when she tells me off .
yep, purged twice over the years. Regretted doing it both times...won't ever do that again!
I wonder how short this thread would be if the title was "Ever thrown out your "femme" belongings, then NOT REGRET it!!??"
Yep. Did the same thing many times. I did it because I was trying to get over my "perversion". Never again. I am so much happier and confidant when I dress as a woman than as a man. If thats perversion, then I want more.
Ive purged at least twice and I regret that I gave/threw away some many sexy outfits.
I hope that people who purge don't actually THROW AWAY good clothes! Please donate them to a used clothing store. Even better, get a transgender friend that will hold them for you. I would definitely hold clothing for a friend. If you see a potential for purging in your future, look for a friend that can help. Some people actually hold clothes for closeted friends so they can come over and dress. I wish that nobody felt the need to hide it, but there are options.
yup
same here
purged several times only to rebuild. Don't plan on doing that again. Have an accepting partner.
yes yes yes and i fear i will again. cant someone stop me!!!!!!!
a long time ago when i had a bad experience and had to call EMS to help, thank god there was no one at home and my neighbours didn't rat on my wife, but after that i through away all my clothes. i had a beautiful corset that was just so sexy on me, i totally regret it and have not done it since. i had to go into alot of therapy to convince me i was OK with crossdressing and now don't throw anything out.
Yes did it once that is all it took. Next time sent all to me, you will still be kicking your self but I will be happy.
:D:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:Yes ... I had my first purge in November........and started buying new stuff again last week :doh:
OMG!!! I could beat myself over the head. I would have SO MANY NICE OUTFITS NOW!! DAMN!!!!
DUH!!!! Yep count me in too. I've purged once or twice the last time was 1997 while going thru a nasty divorce. At least my wig and breast forms were donated to the Cancer society and the clothes to Goodwill.
I did this more times than I could count! it's called purging, for me it stemmed from a desire to rid myself of this "thing" once and for all YEAH RIGHT! I was not able to change my mind so now I'm changing my body.
Yes, a few times, and I regret every one. I even gave up CDing for several years once because I was so ashamed of myself. Even during that time I was still terrified that someone would discover my secret (by telepathy?) Then one day when I was on the verge of yet another purge, out of shame, I looked at my stuff and thought to myself "These are MY CLOTHES, and I'm never going to throw my clothes away again!" And I never have. I guess you could say I purged myself of purging.
YEP. Twice. I do regret it.
I still miss my favorite dress, gone to a landfill. Long sleeves and short and sexy. Maybe in five thousand years, that dress will fertalize a seed and that seed , will be a seeded for a confused young man, to accept his femine side.
SO IT GOES, KILGORE TROUT.
and also that young CD will spell better than myself and all that jazz.
I once purged a pair of black patent thighboots. Yes, I know, I am an idiot. I never had a boots like those ones. Wearing them, I felt as I were Catwoman.
I was still young, I had a girlfriend, she didn't know everything... I loved her..I was terribly worried about she discovered me..
Between 2000 and January 2004 I threw everything away. Wish I had not done that. I had 2 outfits I wish I still had. Wont be purging anymore
I've purged my female clothing so many time over my life and it was always due to the shame and fear of being "caught". I would eventually go out and buy more stuff but then I would purge those items as well. Even now to some extent I am concerned that some maintenance guy at my place fixing the a/c might find something laying about, or a girlfriend might be over for the weekend and decide to do a little snooping. I'm still "coming to grips" with myself and hope that eventually I get things figured out and can stop the insanity.
I LOVE THIS COMMENT!!!
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Originally Posted by Vanity Wilde
I read the subject of this thread and just laughed. What CDer hasn't thrown away something just to regret it later?
It's called purging and it always sucks...
Been there...done that...and yes, it sucks and it does tend to get rather expensive.......:sad:
Countless time. I have thrown them all away. My breast form, cutest and sexy heels, panties and bra. My corsets. I regret badly. But it keep happening. :-(
I too have purged several times over the years due to feelings of guilt and shame.
It doesn't work, and I end up buying replacement stuff, whilst regretting the loss of some item or other that can't be replaced.
I hope I will no longer do this - but you never know.