4 those 35 and older please read
As with many of the older crossdressers in here, I have been doing some sort of dressing from an early age. As the years went by, the lenths I would go to dress and what I did to look feminine got more intense. Yes I am married, been always attracted to girls and never felt gay , the guy image does nothing for me. I too like the look of Denise better Dennis. I think she looks younger , more happy and less nervous. I did notice that after finding this site Denise has blossemed more. I had been taking more risks and even went out fully dressed to a club a couple of times alone and it felt normal being dressed as a girl. Yes before I had to wait for Halloween as an excuse. I asked my self a question today , do I feel more female inside than male. My answer was female. I have yet to go out as Denise during the day but that day may be near. I enjoy viewing pretty cd/tv's/ts's just as much as seeing a red hot swimsuit model. My fantacies are running a little wild and I feel like I missed out on something in life. So my question is:: the longer you dress, do your inner emontions change and your mindset starts thinking like a woman. its as if the longer you get intouch with your feminine side the more you want to feel like a woman. Should I worry or let the course run its path. Never thought I would go get pedicures in drab as a guy, get bright colors put on and walk out the salon in sandles , next I will be wearing womans sandles in and out what's next heels:daydreaming:
It's a matter of context, and maybe hormones too.
We are all pretty complicated individuals. Let's face it, what could be more complicated that lives that span both genders, all matters of sexuality, and then there's family relationships, work relationships, friendships ... omg how do we even live each day without exploding???
I really do believe that we all need to look at our situations and put our feminine selves in context. We still need to be responsible individuals whether our passion is our femme selves or some other deeply encompassing activity. It's like the rest of life balancing all of our desires and obligations.
Given that caveat, only you know that situation, and if expanding your femme self works as a part of your life, then why not?! :) These are difficult and complicated decisions, but there can't be anything inherently wrong with expanding Denise!
In fact, much can be very right with it :)
tina
Hah! U youngsters don't know what OLD means!
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Originally Posted by
Karren Hutton
So why 35? That the magic age? I blew past that so many decades ago... Now I'm just old.. Er... Ish...
That includes U, Karren!:heehee:
Actually, when I started dressing late in life, I had fantasies of breast implants, hormones, becoming a female! :eek:
12 years later, things have moved the OTHER way for me! Now, I never have those thots! But, HEY! I'm old and odd. So, that's NOT likely to happen to u, Denise!:brolleyes: