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I went to Burger King for breakfast And I was dressed.The people that work there know me and are very accepting.Anyway I was waiting off to the side after I
placed my order when a guy came up and introduced himself to me.He asked me if I would like to get a drink sometime.He gave me his Card With his phone number
on it.The funny thing was I used to know him when we were kids.He didn't recognize me.I told him I was married.The girls behind the counter gave me some grief for that
Hi Machelle, That had to make you feel great though. Are you married? & do you think he knew you was a man? I bet the girls did have fun with you about it gives you all something to talk about.
I Don't think he knew I was a man.And No I am not married I just wear a wedding ring for jewelry
Awesome!:)
Hi, Michelle. :) I hate to hear that the employees at BK gave you grief about being hit on..... But as I've experienced myself, getting hit on while out en femme, while it's not a welcomed thing for me, it is expected. I've only been hit on twice, maybe three times and almost every time, a guy just asked me for my phone number and I told him no. LOL
Kim they didn't give me grief more of a teasing.It was all in good fun
Pretty cool...it actually happens! Gotta feel great!
What an awesome experience! How did that feel? Had that ever happenned before? You must be really well put together for that to happen.Quote:
Originally Posted by Michelle8
Since you haven't posted pictures of yourself yet, can you descibe what you were wearing?
Some of us really enjoy the validation that comes with having a man hit on you, regardless of whether you are into them or not. You can savor that without guilt, and without worrying about the sexual politics. It's just a pleasant and fleeting interaction, unless you choose to take it to the next level. Just keep in mind that, if you do leave that option open, a lot of men see a CD as a sexual curiosity and not really as a human. Chalk this up to the ubiquitous nature of porn in the modern era. This may seem obvious but it can come as quite a surprise when a decent looking man, who was nice and polite with you in one breath, asks you in the next if you will do certain things to him or let him do certain things to you.
Patience I have never had that happen to me before.I do pass pretty easily and I do get looks from other men.I was wearing black leggings and a White coat with heeled
boots.I try to look nice every time I go out.If you are trying to be a girl you should put the effort in
To date, all of the men hitting on me were married and attracted to the female form. There was no doubt that I was crossdressed each time. There are a lot of things which give us away especially up close. I asked the guy at checkout when I was buying beer one time if he knew I was male. He said my hands gave me away. The thing is, if you look attractive you will end up with male suitors at some point, so don?t be surprised when it happens whether you pass or not. Passing is not always a factor in my experience at least.
It is kind of surprising the first time it happens and can boost your confidence for sure.
Sandi
If I don't get hit on it kind of annoys me, LOL.
Enjoy the compliment.
That being said, most men don't care that you're a CD, they want to get their freak on.
Michelle, definably an ego boost even if you are married.
I'd much rather be hit on by a girl, and I have been once. I guess if we kissed i can call that being hit on (by a girl).
Michelle i think this is cool on two fronts. One you got hit on weather your intersted or not, says your doing a great job persenting. Secondly you know the girls at the BK well enough to tease you about it. :)
The shared experience I loved most is the teasing from the store staff - that says, "Us, too, Sister."
And it's "kind of surprising," to say the least, the *2nd* time it happens, and the third, and the... :brolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by Sandi Beech
Surreal, is more like it! :roflmao:
I never got used to it, in the least bit. Always felt like I had been blind-sided... Living a normal life one moment, and then the next? BAM! The whole time thinking, "Umm... You know I'm a *dude* under all this, yeah??" :confused2:
Sometimes they know. Sometimes they don't. Sometimes they're wondering. And sometimes they simply don't care, LOL!
I think one of the craziest was when a cute guy came up to our table at a vanilla hetero club & started hitting on me -- in front of a bunch of my attractive & dolled-up GG-friends who were as shocked as I was! :eek:
Is it TMI to reveal that this is a fantasy of mine? Of course, I've got to get out publicly first.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sandi Beech
Thanks for replying. That seems like an interesting outfit. Better than what the average GG wears at BK. Lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by Michelle8
Since you seem able to pass, might as well go all out. As I'm over 6-feet tall,all that production will only go so far.
I have to agree with Steffi. I'd much rather be hit on by a woman. In fact that's one reason (excuse?) why I'm not too thrilled about going out in public places. Assuming I could look good enough (probably a long shot), it would freak me out to be hit on by a guy. I'd probably just turn and run away! However, being hit on by a sexy, passable CD is another story. Not sure about that. Maybe I'll find out some day, if I ever get the courage to attend one of the CD events.
I have a mirror. When I'm not presenting as Sherry I know how old and homely I look!:doh:
So, whenever I'm hit on I'm always shocked! Until I remember these guys don't want to kiss my ugly mug. They only want BJ's!:devil:
Maybe I should clarify. I was hit on by a GG and I kissed (a girl).Quote:
Originally Posted by Larissa Cassandra
I was also hit on by a CD, and we also kissed. Maybe I should be honest that we had a "get a room" makeout session. In public.
Steffi, yeah I think that could happen to me too, as I am only turned on by femininity, preferably a GG! But if too much maleness came through in the interaction, it would be an immediate turn-off.
I've never been hit on while dressed as a woman, but there was one night about 10-12 years ago when I passed a store window on the way back to my car, and an older man who appeared to be a security guard was smiling and waving at me. It felt kind of gratifying that there in the dark, my appearance was good enough to get an old codger to wave at me. (I'm only attracted to women, too, but I'm not entirely sure what I mean by that these days.)
"It felt kind of gratifying that there in the dark, my appearance was good enough to get an old codger to wave at me."
OMG, why is this so funny?? :roflmao:
Thanks so much for making me laugh! :laughing:
:worship: :dom:
Ellbee, then you'll surely get a kick out of the time I went to pick up an Amazon order and a landscape worker whistled and added something in Spanish, not speaking the language I wasn't sure whether to take it as a compliment, insult or just a chuckle! I looked OK but not worth whistling at, for sure!
Michelle - That has to be the greatest compliment to get, to know you are looking good enough to pass and get hit on. That tells me you nailed the look sister!! :cheer:
Getting hit on does NOT mean you've passed!:devil:
I've only been "hit on" twice when dressed femme.
The first time was on Halloween and the guy working in the pizza place wanted a "kiss from a witch" (my costume). I was there with my (first) wife, so "no thank you", but I was thrilled that he thought I was the real thing.
The second time was at a gay-friendly bar. I was there with a GG friend, and this guy was coming on real hard to me. The problem was he was interested in being with a "drag queen" (yes, sex) and that was definitely NOT what I was trying to be (or do). Everything that came out of his mouth was reminding me how I was failing to pass - or even blend as a woman. Needless to say, he didn't "score" and my confidence was badly shaken.
I've been hit on a few times, but most of them time it was a man who, like has been said, only saw me as an object. The ick factor outweighed the compliment. But one guy I still kick myself over bc he was good looking, sweet, and FRENCH (oo la la!). But I was so nervous that I was sure he couldn't really be hitting on me, so I left the bar :straightface:
I was actually surprised by my reaction. I danced with her (the CD) several times and we talked between dances. She (the CD) said, "I wasn't planning on taking my panties off for you, but I would have liked a kiss." I don't know where my head was at, but I just said, "A kiss? I could do a kiss! " And we kissed. She turn around as if one kiss was enough, but then she turned back to me for another kiss, and then another. This was right in front of the elevator with about a dozen gurls all around us.Quote:
Originally Posted by Larissa Cassandra
I grabbed her hand and led her outside where we had a 15-minute makeout session. The most exciting thing that I remember is when she reached under the back of my skirt and caressed my buttocks. All in all, it was just like kissing a GG, except that I was dressed like a girl and wearing a dress. The other difference was that we both had to fix up our lipstick after making out.
I'd def do it again.
Steffi, I'm afraid that it wouldn't stop at kissing and caressing. I start to get aroused just thinking about it! I'm not getting any younger, so sometimes I think I'll just have to try that, but there's no way I can cheat on my lovely, supportive wife. So it will have to remain a fantasy for me, but thanks for sharing your story!
Hugs, Larissa
So true.Quote:
Originally Posted by docrobbysherry
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Agree with this. It's a really slippery slope and just being hit on is a bit bewildering that you really might lose your self control.Quote:
Originally Posted by Larissa Cassandra
Who said it stopped at kissing. I just didn't (and won't) talk about "Part Deux", the X-Rated sequel.Quote:
Originally Posted by Larissa Cassandra
Ah, right, I just assumed.... So that brings up a question: Are you married or have a SO? If so, did they know about this and did you feel like it was "cheating?" This is a VERY difficult subject for me, since I know that if anything like this progressed to, well, you know what, then it would really be the case that you hear so often in movies, etc. - "It didn't mean anything." (if my wife ever found out). It would just have been a heat of the moment response and probably nothing else after that one incident. Don't worry if you feel uncomfortable responding to this, but again thanks for clarifying the situation!
Maybe, maybe not. All I know from my seven decades plus is some guys will cast a line to see if the fish are biting. They know what they are looking for and are relatively astute in assessing the situation. If the guy gets a call back from his business card he scored. Otherwise, it is not different than the telemarketers who call people every day. Someone will eventually take the bait and get reeled in.Quote:
Originally Posted by docrobbysherry