To date, all of the men hitting on me were married and attracted to the female form. There was no doubt that I was crossdressed each time. There are a lot of things which give us away especially up close. I asked the guy at checkout when I was buying beer one time if he knew I was male. He said my hands gave me away. The thing is, if you look attractive you will end up with male suitors at some point, so don?t be surprised when it happens whether you pass or not. Passing is not always a factor in my experience at least.
It is kind of surprising the first time it happens and can boost your confidence for sure.
Sandi